The Public Face versus The Private Face.

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Post #39,448

by inthane-chan

5/21/02 8:45:09 PM

The Public Face versus The Private Face.

I think I know where some of the problem is - it's in what you choose to reveal here.

If you go through and look at your posts, I'm pretty safe in saying that 90% of your posts here about your current situation can be summed up as "My life sucks, I'm losing everything, and I'm going to kill myself."

Now, note I said the word POSTS.

You may be doing a lot about it, but that's not the face you show here. Since you don't show that face here, it's hard for us to see that part of you, and so we assume you're just whining your head off.

InThane - Now running Ashton rev 2.0

Post #39,466

by orion

5/22/02 12:11:32 AM

I am doing what I can to survive

#1 Got the YMCA Trial Membership and using it.

#2 In Design mode for some programs I am working on. Trying to get a Virtual Server set up to show off my ASP skills.

#3 I'm spending more time with the wife and son.

#4 Only stress I have is looking for a job.

#5 Coping with my depression, which leads to some negative thoughts. But I am trying to overcome them.

#6 Unemployment has me barely getting by, runs out in 12 weeks.

#7 I'm setting up a small Intranet at home. If I can download it, I'll have a Red Hat 7.3 Server. I have old Pentium 1 systems from systems that I upgraded for other people a long time ago. Enough to slap in a network card. Windows 2000 Server, Windows 98SE, Windows 95 OSR2, OS/2 WARP 3, and soon Linux for a total of 5 machines networked. I got switch box to share four of them on the same monitor, keyboard, and mouse.

The major problems are the lack of a job, the depression, and some health issues.

I am free now, to choose my own destiny.

How dead is the U.S. software industry? - (inthane-chan) - (90) - May 17, 2002, 03:41:32 PM EDT

You only need one job. Don't believe the hype. - (Another Scott) - May 17, 2002, 04:07:00 PM EDT

Pick a minor - (orion) - May 17, 2002, 08:01:06 PM EDT

It's not dead - (broomberg) - (87) - May 17, 2002, 11:31:00 PM EDT

It's pining for the Fjords! - (orion) - (68) - May 18, 2002, 03:48:56 PM EDT

Good One, Orion!____ [but..___ look at the lovely plumage!] -NT - (Ashton) - May 18, 2002, 04:27:14 PM EDT

Wrong analogy - (broomberg) - (66) - May 19, 2002, 10:06:15 AM EDT

Okies... - (folkert) - May 19, 2002, 10:31:56 AM EDT

Damn Politics! - (orion) - (31) - May 19, 2002, 12:33:27 PM EDT

Sigh - (ben_tilly) - (30) - May 19, 2002, 09:58:22 PM EDT

No new clog - (orion) - (29) - May 20, 2002, 03:42:58 PM EDT

You always have a choice. Always. Hang in there. -NT - (Another Scott) - (24) - May 20, 2002, 04:47:46 PM EDT

I have limited choices - (orion) - (22) - May 20, 2002, 05:52:55 PM EDT

You have lots of choices. - (Another Scott) - May 20, 2002, 11:36:53 PM EDT

You only have one choice - (boxley) - (2) - May 21, 2002, 04:27:40 PM EDT

Thanks Bill - (orion) - (1) - May 21, 2002, 04:33:58 PM EDT

*smile* - (imric) - May 21, 2002, 06:08:23 PM EDT

Why do you seem so convinced that your wife is a bitch? - (CRConrad) - (17) - May 21, 2002, 06:47:41 PM EDT

If I lose the house - (orion) - (16) - May 21, 2002, 11:33:51 PM EDT

But, Y the F wouldn't U live in SAME apt with wife & son ?!? -NT - (CRConrad) - (15) - May 22, 2002, 07:28:47 AM EDT

Why wouldn't I? - (orion) - (14) - May 22, 2002, 08:04:18 PM EDT

What you're saying is, she'd let you starve. Nice marriage. -NT - (CRConrad) - (9) - May 23, 2002, 10:41:35 AM EDT

nope, his pride not her problem -NT - (boxley) - (4) - May 23, 2002, 12:09:55 PM EDT

Yeah, but that's what HE is saying here. - (CRConrad) - (3) - May 25, 2002, 07:51:11 AM EDT

Warehouse job - (orion) - (2) - May 25, 2002, 04:51:54 PM EDT

your last paragraph better be a humor - (boxley) - (1) - May 26, 2002, 10:18:41 AM EDT

Re: your last paragraph better be a humor - (orion) - May 26, 2002, 05:00:59 PM EDT

No, what I am saying - (orion) - (3) - May 23, 2002, 02:13:32 PM EDT

could take a while anyway :) be good for you -NT - (boxley) - May 23, 2002, 02:20:54 PM EDT

What you're saying is pure fucking bullshit. - (CRConrad) - (1) - May 25, 2002, 08:05:05 AM EDT

What are you saying? - (orion) - May 25, 2002, 05:02:05 PM EDT

Just for curiousity... - (hnick) - (3) - May 23, 2002, 03:39:55 PM EDT

Doesn't work in reality - (orion) - (2) - May 24, 2002, 10:43:46 AM EDT

Actually, it does - (hnick) - May 25, 2002, 08:54:39 AM EDT

Something to do in the meantime... - (Another Scott) - May 25, 2002, 09:56:30 AM EDT

I have limited choices - (orion) - May 20, 2002, 05:55:43 PM EDT

You always have more choices - (ben_tilly) - (3) - May 20, 2002, 09:47:05 PM EDT

What I have been doing - (orion) - (2) - May 21, 2002, 01:42:41 PM EDT

The Public Face versus The Private Face. - (inthane-chan) - (1) - May 21, 2002, 08:45:09 PM EDT

I am doing what I can to survive - (orion) - May 22, 2002, 12:11:32 AM EDT

Your description seems accurate. But the 'Plan' is fscked. - (Ashton) - (32) - May 19, 2002, 07:58:48 PM EDT

And your alternative is? - (broomberg) - (31) - May 19, 2002, 10:21:25 PM EDT

"Unless you disagree with basic property rights" - (Ashton) - (2) - May 20, 2002, 04:22:35 PM EDT

Godwin -NT - (broomberg) - (1) - May 20, 2002, 06:33:00 PM EDT

Re: Godwin: just history (German !=Nazi, one hoped) -NT - (Ashton) - May 20, 2002, 07:07:05 PM EDT

Is it my imagination, or is that really... - (CRConrad) - (27) - May 21, 2002, 06:31:22 PM EDT

I dunno about founding fathers - (broomberg) - May 21, 2002, 06:49:25 PM EDT

Barry's assessment of how to work in this biz is correct - (boxley) - May 22, 2002, 10:56:43 AM EDT

It's not just us. - (mmoffitt) - (23) - May 22, 2002, 05:55:41 PM EDT

So much bull, so little time. - (Arkadiy) - (22) - May 22, 2002, 07:38:07 PM EDT

Shto? - (mmoffitt) - (21) - May 23, 2002, 05:05:31 PM EDT

You cannot be free without private property. - (Arkadiy) - (6) - May 24, 2002, 03:05:13 PM EDT

How about "kak?" -NT - (mmoffitt) - (5) - May 28, 2002, 05:13:31 PM EDT

"kak" is "how" while "chto" is "what". -NT - (a6l6e6x) - (4) - May 28, 2002, 11:26:56 PM EDT

I know. I was kidding. - (mmoffitt) - (3) - May 28, 2002, 11:35:23 PM EDT

I tried a cut and paste of Russian from pravda.ru ... - (a6l6e6x) - (1) - May 28, 2002, 11:57:45 PM EDT

Hmm.. Cyrillic in Moz? - (Ashton) - May 29, 2002, 12:50:34 AM EDT

Brezhnev... - (Arkadiy) - May 29, 2002, 10:53:44 AM EDT

This is just sooo rich! - (Arkadiy) - (13) - May 24, 2002, 03:15:18 PM EDT

Nyet. - (mmoffitt) - (12) - May 28, 2002, 05:16:04 PM EDT

Agreed. - (Arkadiy) - (11) - May 29, 2002, 10:49:36 AM EDT

No, I wouldn't. - (mmoffitt) - (10) - May 30, 2002, 10:13:14 AM EDT

The freedom to read requires the freedom to own the book - (Arkadiy) - (9) - May 30, 2002, 11:00:13 AM EDT

Do you "own" library books? - (mmoffitt) - (7) - May 30, 2002, 12:47:50 PM EDT

cuba does not recognise personal property - (boxley) - (3) - May 30, 2002, 02:16:59 PM EDT

Clarification. - (mmoffitt) - May 30, 2002, 04:49:49 PM EDT

Bullshit, I think. (Goes for the Soviet Union too, BTW.) - (CRConrad) - (1) - May 30, 2002, 05:46:13 PM EDT

Individual belongings versus private property. - (Arkadiy) - May 30, 2002, 07:06:14 PM EDT

No. Library does. - (Arkadiy) - (2) - May 30, 2002, 03:01:36 PM EDT

Ah, but who owns the library? The People do ;-) - (mmoffitt) - May 30, 2002, 04:45:49 PM EDT

Guess I don't see any real argument here. - (Ashton) - May 30, 2002, 09:15:06 PM EDT

And she did finish that book (I saw her) ;-) -NT - (mmoffitt) - May 30, 2002, 12:52:14 PM EDT

Property rights - (orion) - May 28, 2002, 05:45:28 PM EDT

Right on; most software isn't shrink wrapped - (tonytib) - May 19, 2002, 11:23:36 PM EDT

You misunderstand my situation. - (inthane-chan) - (8) - May 20, 2002, 03:33:26 AM EDT

Go be a firefighter - (tseliot) - May 20, 2002, 01:21:48 PM EDT

What do you know... - (rsf) - (6) - May 20, 2002, 02:04:19 PM EDT

It's also who you know - (tonytib) - (5) - May 20, 2002, 03:04:54 PM EDT

Well, now, that's the rub, ain't it? - (inthane-chan) - (4) - May 20, 2002, 03:26:03 PM EDT

Can you stay in school for another year? - (rsf) - (1) - May 20, 2002, 03:46:31 PM EDT

Unfortunately, no. - (inthane-chan) - May 20, 2002, 05:03:50 PM EDT

Well, I'll keep a look out - (tonytib) - May 20, 2002, 04:49:52 PM EDT

Only a few angles to offer.. - (Ashton) - May 20, 2002, 05:05:19 PM EDT

Looks 'tits up' to me. - (tuberculosis) - (7) - Aug. 21, 2007, 06:41:36 AM EDT

I dunno, you tell me - (broomberg) - (6) - May 20, 2002, 06:48:27 PM EDT

HOLY ****! - (inthane-chan) - (1) - May 20, 2002, 07:12:49 PM EDT

That's what I thought - (broomberg) - May 20, 2002, 08:42:11 PM EDT

Not too shabby - (tuberculosis) - (2) - Aug. 21, 2007, 06:42:00 AM EDT

Based on your description - (broomberg) - (1) - May 20, 2002, 09:58:53 PM EDT

Based on your.... - (folkert) - May 20, 2002, 10:12:07 PM EDT

Same here, pretty much. - (admin) - May 21, 2002, 11:59:54 AM EDT

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