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New I hope and pray that doesn't mean
what it seems to imply...

Don't do anything stupid or rash Ross, okay?

Nightowl >8#



"Don't be a cynic and disconsolate preacher. Don't bewail and moan. Omit the negative propositions. Challenge us with incessant affirmatives. Don't waste yourself in rejection, or bark against the bad, but chant the beauty of the good." Ralph Waldo Emerson
New What the fuck difference does it make to you?
You don't know me from Adam. Spend your effort on something else. I'm done.
-drl
New Re: What the fuck difference does it make to you?
Ah well, it's the hooty curse, I was born to care too much for those who don't.

Nightowl >8#



"Don't be a cynic and disconsolate preacher. Don't bewail and moan. Omit the negative propositions. Challenge us with incessant affirmatives. Don't waste yourself in rejection, or bark against the bad, but chant the beauty of the good." Ralph Waldo Emerson
New It really matters to you though
are you just going to give up, just like that? Or are you going to be as tough as you say you are, and put up a fight?

Go to the interview, don't wear a suit, see what happens. Just one thing, give it a 100% effort. Tell them that "I am not a stuffed shirt, I am a real person." and see where that takes you. If they ask about the lack of a suit, say "Clothes do not make the man. Did you want to hire a suit, or someone who can do the job, as I can do this job." If you can do that, and hold your head up high, maybe, just maybe, it is enough to impress them and get that job.

I've been down that road, and I documented it here, I wanted to give it all up. But do you know what? When I do that, those bastards win. Are you going to let the bastards win, or are you going to show them who is who? Then live dammit, live like you've never lived before. Be tough as nails, be mean, show up in dockers then, just don't give up.



"Lady I only speak two languages, English and Bad English!" - Corbin Dallas "The Fifth Element"

     I have an interview - (deSitter) - (77)
         They're in to arm bands and jack-boots these days ;0) -NT - (mmoffitt)
         thoughts, prayers, luck! -NT - (Steve Lowe)
         Good luck! - (Nightowl)
         Good luck - (Arkadiy) - (26)
             Nope - (deSitter) - (25)
                 Hmm. - (Another Scott) - (1)
                     Mmm forearms! -NT - (deSitter)
                 Ideally, - (bepatient) - (4)
                     I AM disrespectful of "hiring clothes" - (deSitter) - (1)
                         "Beware of all occupations which require new clothes" .. - (Ashton)
                     What is expected varies with career and location - (ben_tilly) - (1)
                         Re: What is expected varies with career and location - (deSitter)
                 Bullshit - (broomberg) - (15)
                     Yep. -NT - (admin)
                     Dunno, I interview business casual - (boxley) - (7)
                         You just described entry level dressed - (broomberg) - (6)
                             You ARE a boss - amazing - (deSitter) - (1)
                                 No I'm not - (broomberg)
                             dont forget a repo in Missouri is dressed like - (boxley) - (3)
                                 Funny but wrong :) - (deSitter) - (2)
                                     then you didnt take me to the right social gatherings :-) -NT - (boxley)
                                     Mixed results - (orion)
                     NO - (deSitter) - (5)
                         One does what one must. - (mmoffitt) - (4)
                             One does what one IS -NT - (deSitter) - (3)
                                 Only when he's not working ;-) - (mmoffitt) - (2)
                                     That's sort of sad - (deSitter) - (1)
                                         Employed :( -NT - (mmoffitt)
                 Fit in or stay out. - (Silverlock) - (1)
                     sorry Im with Doc here, - (boxley)
         you'll be fine, impress and good luck -NT - (boxley)
         bonne chance - (cforde)
         Knock 'em dead. - (Silverlock)
         You go girl...err...Ross! - (jb4)
         Good luck, man! -NT - (imric)
         Just to pound the point home... - (Another Scott) - (5)
             Thanks but of course at my age I don't need dressing advice - (deSitter) - (4)
                 Then don't bother to show up. -NT - (admin) - (1)
                     Re: Then don't bother to show up. - (deSitter)
                 That is too extreme - (ben_tilly) - (1)
                     Concur in spades. -NT - (mmoffitt)
         Interview cancelled - (deSitter) - (35)
             Dont let other people guide your life, take peters advice - (boxley)
             Please calm down. - (Another Scott) - (27)
                 Re: Please calm down. - (deSitter) - (26)
                     I hope and pray that doesn't mean - (Nightowl) - (3)
                         What the fuck difference does it make to you? - (deSitter) - (2)
                             Re: What the fuck difference does it make to you? - (Nightowl)
                             It really matters to you though - (orion)
                     Ross, look. - (mmoffitt)
                     No one said you needed to go to the jobs that way - (broomberg) - (20)
                         Re: No one said you needed to go to the jobs that way - (deSitter) - (19)
                             My bad. I thought you wanted to eat. -NT - (mmoffitt)
                             yer purpose is to suck air until you quit - (boxley) - (11)
                                 Re: yer purpose is to suck air until you quit - (deSitter) - (10)
                                     last $500? - (boxley) - (4)
                                         Re: last $500? - (deSitter) - (3)
                                             There is work if you look for it - (orion) - (2)
                                                 Nope - (deSitter) - (1)
                                                     Then I challenge you to find something that does work - (orion)
                                     Another viewpoint - (Nightowl) - (4)
                                         Re: Another viewpoint - (deSitter) - (3)
                                             Well... - (Nightowl) - (2)
                                                 Re: Well... - (deSitter) - (1)
                                                     Done :) - (Nightowl)
                             Explain - (broomberg) - (3)
                                 Re: Explain - (deSitter) - (2)
                                     Nice try - (broomberg) - (1)
                                         I agree - (orion)
                             Yes, you do. - (Another Scott)
                             Life sucks. - (inthane-chan)
             What is this "buy into PHBism" BS? - (ben_tilly)
             I like wearing suits. - (imric) - (4)
                 Re: I like wearing suits. - (deSitter) - (3)
                     Heh. - (imric) - (2)
                         Re: Heh. - (deSitter) - (1)
                             A never-ending supply of morons. - (imric)

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