It's not the handling of finances, it's the albatross of student loans that total 3x my wife's yearly income, at 7% fixed interest. She got a degree in Psychology, started before and finished after the state raised the bar incredibly high for new psychologists - she would have to pay around $20k out of pocket to get prequalified for the test, then there is the test itself which requires around six months of dedicated study. Of course, all the existing certified psychologists got grandfathered in. She did not get her degree in social work, and since there's an oversupply of social workers, she can't easily transition over that way.
Our family lives in state, although not nearby - but there's no good paying work for me in the areas they live. Good paying = enough to survive on while trying to dig out from under student loans. Wherever we go, that monthly payment drags us down.