I know: it's pretty much no-win however you dice it.
Making the 'lose' the least unpalatable gets us to where we are today.
Knowing human nature, if Lily's ex doesn't want to visit the kids, that would be likely why he doesn't want to pay support. Some people can't understand it doesn't work that way...
Wade.
Is it enough to love Is it enough to breathe Somebody rip my heart out And leave me here to bleed
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