I don't even think in those terms

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Post #260,979 by drewk 7/7/06 9:32:20 AM Reply	I don't even think in those terms First, she doesn't work outside the home. So any money she spends comes from me anyway. As Ben said, there's no difference between using the ATM and taking it from my wallet. Since I nearly always use the debit card when I have a choice, the only time I need cash is for the few places that don't take plastic. And at those places I'm rarely buying something for more than $20. If she had "her own" money, and was taking "mine" because she ran out, that might be what you're talking about. But I don't think so. It's like saying that I'm stealing from her because I ate the last piece of cake without asking. === Purveyor of Doc Hope's [link\|http://DocHope.com\|fresh-baked dog biscuits and pet treats]. [link\|http://DocHope.com\|http://DocHope.com]
Post #260,989 by bepatient 7/7/06 12:07:13 PM 7/7/06 12:07:44 PM Reply	Even moreso here I work, she works. Whats mine is hers and vice versa. Normal procedure is to ask. The wallet rifling or me going into the pocketbook would not be an issue over the money, it would be an issue of courtesy and respect of the other persons "space". What I'm saying, I go into her pocketbook to get money on occassion. But I >ask< before I do, generally. If you push something hard enough, it will fall over. _{Fudd's First Law of Opposition} [link\|mailto:bepatient@aol.com\|BePatient] Edited by bepatient July 7, 2006, 12:07:44 PM EDT Expand All History
Post #260,995 by drewk 7/7/06 1:46:17 PM Reply	Re: asking first Odds are the ice cream truck came by while she was out front with the kids and didn't have her purse handy. The wallet[1] was on the shelf by the front door, where I left it while I was doing yard work. [1] It hasn't been "my wallet" for about five years, it's "the wallet". And I'm okay with that. === Purveyor of Doc Hope's [link\|http://DocHope.com\|fresh-baked dog biscuits and pet treats]. [link\|http://DocHope.com\|http://DocHope.com]

This is *not* evidence that I'm anal - (drewk) - (31) - July 6, 2006, 09:39:57 AM EDT

you have bills in your wallet and you are married? /me green -NT - (boxley) - (1) - July 6, 2006, 09:43:56 AM EDT

Didn't say they were *large* bills - (drewk) - July 6, 2006, 09:59:57 AM EDT

Right you are. - (Yendor) - (7) - July 6, 2006, 09:48:00 AM EDT

Re: Right you are. - (Nightowl) - (6) - July 12, 2006, 12:41:37 AM EDT

you are obviously anal, not a mental disease though -NT - (boxley) - (1) - July 12, 2006, 09:02:36 AM EDT

Don't be confusing "pointless" with "symptomatic" -NT - (pwhysall) - July 12, 2006, 12:01:12 PM EDT

The symptoms are on a continuum - (bionerd) - (3) - July 12, 2006, 11:17:45 AM EDT

Thank you, Laura - (Nightowl) - (1) - July 12, 2006, 11:35:01 AM EDT

You're welcome. - (bionerd) - July 12, 2006, 01:37:44 PM EDT

ICLRPD (new thread) - (Nightowl) - July 12, 2006, 11:40:40 AM EDT

That's not anal, that's organized :-) - (imqwerky) - (4) - July 6, 2006, 09:53:20 AM EDT

There, you see? I'm okay, Amy says so -NT - (drewk) - (3) - July 6, 2006, 10:00:55 AM EDT

you're ok, I'm ok - (cforde) - (1) - July 7, 2006, 02:58:50 AM EDT

Wow - (imqwerky) - July 7, 2006, 10:36:21 AM EDT

I agree with Amy - (Nightowl) - July 12, 2006, 12:44:54 AM EDT

I assume none are missing? -NT - (warmachine) - (11) - July 6, 2006, 10:09:42 AM EDT

Hahahahahahahahaha - (drewk) - (10) - July 6, 2006, 10:18:52 AM EDT

Your wife can't cover her tracks? -NT - (warmachine) - (9) - July 6, 2006, 12:09:36 PM EDT

If the goal were snooping, she didn't cover them - (drewk) - (8) - July 6, 2006, 12:32:37 PM EDT

She steals and doesn't care? - (warmachine) - (7) - July 6, 2006, 06:57:28 PM EDT

Do try to be less of a moron, OK? - (ben_tilly) - (2) - July 6, 2006, 07:36:33 PM EDT

shared accounts - (rcareaga) - (1) - July 6, 2006, 10:52:06 PM EDT

It strongly depends on the people - (ben_tilly) - July 6, 2006, 11:16:07 PM EDT

its our money not my money unlike the UK - (boxley) - July 6, 2006, 07:49:23 PM EDT

I don't even think in those terms - (drewk) - (2) - July 7, 2006, 09:32:20 AM EDT

Even moreso here - (bepatient) - (1) - July 7, 2006, 12:07:44 PM EDT

Re: asking first - (drewk) - July 7, 2006, 01:46:17 PM EDT

Denominational order here, but face up? - (Andrew Grygus) - July 6, 2006, 10:55:13 AM EDT

My wife does that - (tjsinclair) - (2) - July 6, 2006, 11:51:41 AM EDT

I like to keep the notes in order, too. - (static) - (1) - July 6, 2006, 10:53:42 PM EDT

Same here. -NT - (jbrabeck) - July 7, 2006, 03:47:31 PM EDT

So we're in the Temple of Mitra now?
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