that you prefer a manual because otherwise your concern for the optimal performance of your precious car won't force you to look around and pay attention to traffic?
Well when I'm driving, I'm going to look around and pay attention to traffic no matter what car I'm driving, because I like remaining alive! I don't need concern about nursemaiding my car to encourage me to do the right thing!
If this is an issue for you, then I likewise want you to drive a manual.
Cheers,
Ben