"Dressy" women's shoes have heels with a very small surface to floor interface area. Any woman with sufficient sense to have rejected the (nearly lighter than air and thinner than a fart) supermodel physique will be applying considerable compressive stress at the heel-floor interface. To avoid litigatable disintegration of heels, well heeled fashion cobblers have learned to use materials of sufficient strength, such as titanium, at this interface.
Such materials do produce an acoustic effect when they impact flooring materials sufficiently rigid to endure the forces applied by an attracively curvacious woman through a heel surface no larger than 1/2 square inch.
I would suggest, rather than be annoyed, you cultivate an imagination sufficiently vivid to appreciate the curvaciousness necessary to provide sufficient impact to produce a truly satisfying "klack klack klack" and the tactile implications thereof. Of course your SO, who wears comfortable shoes, will kill you for your thoughts, but it'll be worth it.
I hope this introduction to erotic engineering has been helpful to overcoming your nerdiness.