Linc, I am sorry.
I have a very close friend who had the very same "Christmas Gift". His lads are 2 and 4 years of age. There is nothing anyone can say that will make any difference. Just know that there are people in the "ether" who care and are saddened.
bcnu,
Mikem
Eine Leute. Eine Welt. Ein F\ufffdhrer.
(Just trying to be accepted in the New America)