I can easily concur with the medication thinger.

I'll never go back to being that way I was. EVER. I'd rather go broke then go back.

As for the Wife thing, I also agree some form of mediation/counseling is needed.

As far as the e-mail thingy... yeah that too. Even for the wife, my wife is awesome for a "Pen Pal".

Recently my wife lost her regular "PenPal" and wouldn't prolly mind another one.

Consider it for both of you.