What women find most attractive in a man is evidence of wealth and a propensity to spend it unwisely. This is why a Porsche is such an effective attractor.
I notice in my age group the phrase "economically secure" and similar crude euphamisms are no longer used in singles ads. The universal ploy is now listing "Travel" as a most important interest, clearly implying that an acceptable man has plenty of leasure time and plenty of money.