In the Los Angeles Times Sunday magazine West of a week ago there was an article on ties by a guy who mentioned being rejected on a first date because he forgot to take his off after a business meeting.
I'm old enough to wear a tie and not look weird but younger guys wouldn't dare - and I would never wear one on a date. Of course if the tie goes out in Los Angeles it will soon be gone worldwide - except perhaps in Japan and the Financial district of London.
Even I would never wear a dark tie with a white shirt. You dress like that and everyone thinks you're a Mormon missionary. No danger though, I don't own a white shirt.