You're not a ratbastard

Post #259,384 by imqwerky 6/19/06 4:33:50 PM 6/19/06 4:57:04 PM Reply	You're not a ratbastard If you've been paying child support this whole time, that's more than most "sperm donors" will do. Let's be honest, if you aren't going to be a positive influence in someone's life, stay the hell out of it. I respect that. Now is not the time to go waltzing back like in some romantic movie. This is real life. If you don't feel it in your heart, you are better off with the status quo. If you happen to have an epiphany, well, that's another story. Whatever you decide, it's not for me to judge, Asshole (this is the Flame Forum, afterall!) edit: apparently my brethren are judging :-/ Smile, Amy [link\|http://kevan.org/brain.cgi?Amy%20Rathman\|Pics of the Family] Edited by imqwerky June 19, 2006, 04:57:04 PM EDT You're not a ratbastard If you've been paying child support this whole time, that's more than most "sperm donors" will do. Let's be honest, if you aren't going to be a positive influence in someone's life, stay the hell out of it. I respect that. Now is not the time to go waltzing back like in some romantic movie. This is real life. If you don't feel in your heart, you are better off with the status quo. If you happen to have an epiphany, well, that's another story. Whatever you decide, it's not for us to judge, Asshole (this is the Flame Forum, afterall!) Smile, Amy [link\|http://kevan.org/brain.cgi?Amy%20Rathman\|Pics of the Family] Collapse All History
Post #259,406 by ben_tilly 6/19/06 7:51:15 PM Reply	If he feels that ratbastard is a good description then I'm sure that ratbastard is a good description. We don't know all the facts. And even if it isn't a good description, if that's how he feels about the experience, that's his right. Cheers, Ben The great masses of people ... will more easily fall victims to a big lie than to a small one. -- Adolf Hitler
Post #259,407 by imqwerky 6/19/06 7:56:27 PM Reply	He assumed the females would judge him I merely stated that I didn't. Asshole.(Flame Forum etiquette, or is it?) Smile, Amy [link\|http://kevan.org/brain.cgi?Amy%20Rathman\|Pics of the Family]
Post #259,411 by ratbastard 6/19/06 8:13:04 PM Reply	Correct. Thank you.
Post #259,424 by Nightowl 6/19/06 9:52:45 PM Reply	I'm not judging him either I would never try to convince or force someone to be a parent, especially since I have no desire to ever be one myself. No owlets, no owlets EVER! Brenda "When you take charge of your life, there is no longer need to ask permission of other people or society at large. When you ask permission, you give someone veto power over your life." -- By Geoffrey F. Abert ************************** "Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind, don't matter - and those who matter, don't mind." -- By Dr. Seuss ******************************* "Sometimes it takes a whole lot more strength to walk away than to stand there and fight." -- By the character of John Abbott: said on Young & Restless on 5/19/06 *******************************

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