the same employer for over 15 years now. She worked her way up to a supervisor position. She has her father living here, her brother who hardly speaks any English that she has to help translate bills and stuff for, her grandmother's grave that she visits, her friends, my family (it is rare to find a woman that gets along with my mother and other family members), and other factors that makes us want to stay here.

If I moved out, she would stay here and most likely file for a divorce or seperate from me. I also may not be able to make it by myself on my own, I could try, but I am not sure.