Hate to say 'I told you so', but ...
No wait, I love to say it!
When Peter and I said that, due to family considerations, there were certin options that simply weren't possible choices, you were pretty insistent that there was always a choice. IIRC Peter said to see how you feel about it when you have kids of your own. Doesn't seem to have taken long before you're saying that your actions are "Certainly not by choice!"
I'll give you a few years to come to terms with the fact that you'll start saying things to your child you swore you never would. Welcome to the club! :-)
