For your concern and sympathy.
I have healed over it, the family is breaking up. Brother and sisters are not speaking to each other. My Step-Grandfather is starting to recover. They are not going to charge him with man involuntary slaughter.
My cousins have come around to my thinking that our parents are Stupid crazy. Ehh. No more Mother's day get togethers, no more Thanksgivings, no more Christmas get togethers either.
No biggy, I mostly skipped them anyway past two years as I always got the evil eye from everyone. And I was certainly un-invited to Christmas last year.
Screw-em. I am just going to ignore them.