Condolences as well.
Both on the loss of the Matriarch, and on the petty games your family is playing. I've been through a few of those, but let's just say that their actions show them for what they are. I'm sure those who matter will recognize this fact, and think the better of you for it.
After 9/11, Bush made two statements:
1. "Terrorists hate America because America is a land of freedom and opportunity."
2. "We intend to attack the root causes of terrorism."
Sounds like everything is going according to plan.