...but since I don't know which of them -- if any! -- was intended, I'll read it straight-up-and-down like it's written.
And since I am (as you probably know) of the non-praying type, I can only say what several others here have said already: My condoleances, sympathy for the bereaved including you Mike, "life goes on", etc etc.
Or, to borrow KMS' closing,
Peace.