The point I am making is not that all women are mercenary in nature, just to assume that they are until proven otherwise. For every abused woman there is a wholesale mooch. I do not want my boys to be abusive and try very hard to convey that. I do recognise that one size fits all laws mostly suck. I also want to impress them that it is THEIR sole responsibility to ensure that pregnancy doesnt happen. That way the issue does not arise.
thanx,
bill