>>You keep refering to >YOU<.
>>That >YOU< were ready.
>>That >YOU< would not be >>traumatized.
>>It's always about >YOU<.
I've talked about my own situation
I've asked the group for their own stories (and they are appearing...if you would read)
I've mentioned other countries.
I've mentioned other states.
I've mentioned articles where leading researchers are asking similar questions.
Seems like you are wrong to me. <shrug>
>>And getting MORE OPINIONS is not substantiating it.
This is one of the oddest things you have ever said.
I'm suggesting that we ask 1000 men from our group
whether they think they would have wanted to....
and whether they think it would have been harmful.
You're saying that you are going to override what they say....
because........you know better?