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Post #237,350
by jake123
12/8/05 1:25:48 PM
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New Know how you feel
Mine's on the rocks too. Has been for months.

One bad consequence has been that it's turned me into a very angry person. I'm going to have to get past that somehow.
--\n-------------------------------------------------------------------\n* Jack Troughton                            jake at consultron.ca *\n* [link|http://consultron.ca|http://consultron.ca]                   [link|irc://irc.ecomstation.ca|irc://irc.ecomstation.ca] *\n* Kingston Ontario Canada               [link|news://news.consultron.ca|news://news.consultron.ca] *\n-------------------------------------------------------------------
Post #237,356
by Steve Lowe
12/8/05 2:00:09 PM
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New Sorry no hear as well :(
Jake, I know where you're at...and yes, getting past the anger is so hard, but so important. Hang in there, man, and just play your guitar :)
--
Steve
[link|http://www.ubuntulinux.org|Ubuntu]
Post #237,358
by jake123
12/8/05 2:05:09 PM
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New Been doing a lot of that
Part of it is that you can't just cut off comm when you have children, as we do. It makes it easy to stoke up the fires.
--\n-------------------------------------------------------------------\n* Jack Troughton                            jake at consultron.ca *\n* [link|http://consultron.ca|http://consultron.ca]                   [link|irc://irc.ecomstation.ca|irc://irc.ecomstation.ca] *\n* Kingston Ontario Canada               [link|news://news.consultron.ca|news://news.consultron.ca] *\n-------------------------------------------------------------------
Post #237,363
by Steve Lowe
12/8/05 2:55:07 PM
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New Understand that
The conflict between wanting this person completely out of your life and trying to do what's best for the kiddos. I often wished my ex would get hit by a bus..but then considered how my son would feel about losing his mom.
--
Steve
[link|http://www.ubuntulinux.org|Ubuntu]
Post #237,364
by jake123
12/8/05 3:11:37 PM
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New I don't feel that way about her
OTOH, it wasn't really my choice exactly. Well, you know, it's complicated. She's complicated, and she's been an angry person for a lot longer than I have. She even has good reasons to be angry; the only problem is that while the causes haven't been mine in the majority part, I have received the majority if not all of the fallout.

Negotiations are ongoing, but right now it's definitely off.
--\n-------------------------------------------------------------------\n* Jack Troughton                            jake at consultron.ca *\n* [link|http://consultron.ca|http://consultron.ca]                   [link|irc://irc.ecomstation.ca|irc://irc.ecomstation.ca] *\n* Kingston Ontario Canada               [link|news://news.consultron.ca|news://news.consultron.ca] *\n-------------------------------------------------------------------
Post #237,362
by imqwerky
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12/8/05 2:45:39 PM
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New Sorry to hear about your situation too, Jake
Wishing you better times and comfort for your soul.

Hugs,
Amy

"It's never too late to be who you might have been." ~ George Eliot
Post #237,402
by jake123
12/8/05 9:35:52 PM
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New Thanks Amy
It's not necessarily the Final End, but things have got to change... and I'm not there now.

I know what our kids want to see happen; we'll see if it ends up working out that way.
--\n-------------------------------------------------------------------\n* Jack Troughton                            jake at consultron.ca *\n* [link|http://consultron.ca|http://consultron.ca]                   [link|irc://irc.ecomstation.ca|irc://irc.ecomstation.ca] *\n* Kingston Ontario Canada               [link|news://news.consultron.ca|news://news.consultron.ca] *\n-------------------------------------------------------------------
Post #237,404
by Another Scott
12/8/05 9:45:44 PM
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New Fingers crossed here too. Good luck.
Post #237,406
by imric
12/8/05 9:53:20 PM
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New Luck!
Imric's Tips for Living
  • Paranoia Is a Survival Trait
  • Pessimists are never disappointed - but sometimes, if they are very lucky, they can be pleasantly surprised...
  • Even though everyone is out to get you, it doesn't matter unless you let them win.


Nothing is as simple as it seems in the beginning,
As hopeless as it seems in the middle,
Or as finished as it seems in the end.
 
 
Post #237,410
by jb4
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12/8/05 9:57:30 PM
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New Luck, too!
jb4
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Post #237,455
by jbrabeck
12/9/05 12:13:15 PM
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New As I told Thane
Feel free to email me if you need to blow off steam or just want to chat. Been there twice. It's never easy nor painless..

Good luck...
A good friend will come and bail you out of jail ... but, a true friend will be sitting next to you saying, "Damn...that was fun!"
Post #238,118
by Nightowl
12/14/05 11:45:43 PM
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New Hang in there Jake!
I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers that things work out for the good and that your kids cope with whatever happens!

Brenda


"I'll rock the darn boat all I want to, and if it's meant to stay afloat, then it will. If not, then we'll just all go down with the bloody ship!"
     Long dark night of the soul starting. - (inthane-chan) - (63) - Sept. 30, 2005, 12:24:50 PM EDT
         You got em - (tuberculosis) - (2) - Sept. 30, 2005, 12:34:55 PM EDT
             email still - (inthane-chan) - (1) - Sept. 30, 2005, 12:36:56 PM EDT
                 yep -NT - (tuberculosis) - Sept. 30, 2005, 12:41:29 PM EDT
         :-( - (imric) - Sept. 30, 2005, 12:42:10 PM EDT
         Thoughts and prayers your way, Thane.. -NT - (Steve Lowe) - Sept. 30, 2005, 12:45:20 PM EDT
         Best of luck -NT - (ben_tilly) - Sept. 30, 2005, 01:02:06 PM EDT
         Good wishes you get! - (a6l6e6x) - Sept. 30, 2005, 01:24:25 PM EDT
         Wishes and hopes sent your way -NT - (Silverlock) - Sept. 30, 2005, 01:31:22 PM EDT
         Wishes sent. Hang in there, you and yours. -NT - (Another Scott) - Sept. 30, 2005, 01:34:09 PM EDT
         Good luck. Light always follows dark. Wait it out -NT - (hnick) - Sept. 30, 2005, 01:37:31 PM EDT
         Ditto with the wishes sent. -NT - (jbrabeck) - Sept. 30, 2005, 01:40:37 PM EDT
         you got them :( -NT - (boxley) - Sept. 30, 2005, 02:58:33 PM EDT
         This too, shall pass! - (folkert) - Sept. 30, 2005, 03:46:32 PM EDT
         Prayers and good wishes - (imqwerky) - Sept. 30, 2005, 05:01:19 PM EDT
         If it's anything to do with - (Ashton) - (1) - Sept. 30, 2005, 05:23:26 PM EDT
             Nope, not the beast. - (inthane-chan) - Sept. 30, 2005, 07:02:11 PM EDT
         Good wishes comin' atcha. - (jb4) - Sept. 30, 2005, 05:45:33 PM EDT
         Positive Energy coming your way -NT - (bionerd) - Sept. 30, 2005, 05:56:38 PM EDT
         Got them from me. -NT - (broomberg) - Sept. 30, 2005, 06:59:50 PM EDT
         Thoughts. - (pwhysall) - Sept. 30, 2005, 07:23:46 PM EDT
         Well, it seems bad things only happen . . . - (Andrew Grygus) - (2) - Oct. 1, 2005, 02:19:44 AM EDT
             Are you saying that he should become a bad person? -NT - (ben_tilly) - (1) - Oct. 1, 2005, 11:01:45 AM EDT
                 Well, from general observation, it seems to help :) - (Andrew Grygus) - Oct. 1, 2005, 02:20:58 PM EDT
         You have mine! - (bepatient) - Oct. 1, 2005, 04:33:05 AM EDT
         remember the tea, must have tea time - (cforde) - Oct. 1, 2005, 01:41:28 PM EDT
         Shit... Thinking good thoughts, hoping it'll help. -NT - (CRConrad) - Oct. 1, 2005, 06:37:36 PM EDT
         Thoughts and prayers sent also - (Nightowl) - Oct. 2, 2005, 09:10:51 AM EDT
         It's over. - (inthane-chan) - (34) - Dec. 8, 2005, 12:59:05 PM EST
             ...... - (imric) - Dec. 8, 2005, 01:18:52 PM EST
             I'm so sorry, Inthane. - (Nightowl) - Dec. 8, 2005, 01:23:20 PM EST
             Know how you feel - (jake123) - (11) - Dec. 8, 2005, 01:25:48 PM EST
                 Sorry no hear as well :( - (Steve Lowe) - (3) - Dec. 8, 2005, 02:00:09 PM EST
                     Been doing a lot of that - (jake123) - (2) - Dec. 8, 2005, 02:05:09 PM EST
                         Understand that - (Steve Lowe) - (1) - Dec. 8, 2005, 02:55:07 PM EST
                             I don't feel that way about her - (jake123) - Dec. 8, 2005, 03:11:37 PM EST
                 Sorry to hear about your situation too, Jake - (imqwerky) - (6) - Dec. 8, 2005, 02:45:39 PM EST
                     Thanks Amy - (jake123) - (5) - Dec. 8, 2005, 09:35:52 PM EST
                         Fingers crossed here too. Good luck. -NT - (Another Scott) - Dec. 8, 2005, 09:45:44 PM EST
                         Luck! -NT - (imric) - Dec. 8, 2005, 09:53:20 PM EST
                         Luck, too! -NT - (jb4) - Dec. 8, 2005, 09:57:30 PM EST
                         As I told Thane - (jbrabeck) - Dec. 9, 2005, 12:13:15 PM EST
                         Hang in there Jake! - (Nightowl) - Dec. 14, 2005, 11:45:43 PM EST
             Very sorry to hear :( -NT - (slugbug) - Dec. 8, 2005, 01:27:35 PM EST
             Thane-shoot me an email - (jb4) - Dec. 8, 2005, 01:46:47 PM EST
             Sorry. Hang tough my friend. -NT - (Silverlock) - Dec. 8, 2005, 01:47:46 PM EST
             So Sorry to hear. :( - (Steve Lowe) - Dec. 8, 2005, 01:57:32 PM EST
             Very sorry to hear. :-( Hang in there. Keep posting. -NT - (Another Scott) - Dec. 8, 2005, 01:57:50 PM EST
             condolences - (jbrabeck) - Dec. 8, 2005, 02:30:09 PM EST
             We love you and care about you. - (imqwerky) - Dec. 8, 2005, 02:38:53 PM EST
             Sorry to hear, book recommend - (ben_tilly) - Dec. 8, 2005, 04:03:08 PM EST
             Oh, man.... let me know if there is anything I can do - (boxley) - Dec. 8, 2005, 05:42:29 PM EST
             Sorry - (broomberg) - Dec. 8, 2005, 06:29:18 PM EST
             Condolences. - (Yendor) - Dec. 8, 2005, 06:31:00 PM EST
             Triple sucks - email me - (tuberculosis) - Dec. 8, 2005, 07:35:28 PM EST
             Not gone - (bepatient) - Dec. 8, 2005, 08:09:58 PM EST
             Sorry to hear you're in pain, Thane! -NT - (a6l6e6x) - Dec. 8, 2005, 09:30:19 PM EST
             never easy,... - (cforde) - Dec. 9, 2005, 12:24:20 AM EST
             El Sucko. Good thoughts continuing. -NT - (CRConrad) - Dec. 9, 2005, 05:04:53 AM EST
             Sorry, I know it's hard. - (hnick) - Dec. 9, 2005, 06:33:33 AM EST
             Damn, - (Ashton) - Dec. 9, 2005, 07:00:58 AM EST
             Sorry to hear it :-( -NT - (SpiceWare) - Dec. 9, 2005, 10:34:08 AM EST
             Sorry to hear it has come to this . . . - (Andrew Grygus) - Dec. 9, 2005, 12:56:00 PM EST
         Nothing helps. But I am very sorry. -NT - (mmoffitt) - Dec. 15, 2005, 04:05:54 PM EST

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