But thought that might escalate things more. Ex would probably view that as me throwing my love life (what love life?) in his face and he would take it as an affront. That's how he sees things. I'm not looking forward to battling with them alone, though. I have a couple of neighbors on alert- they will help out if needed.
I like the meatloaf recipe, too, but am not going to waste a perfectly good can of alpo on them. Little Sadie has to eat, too!
Friends in MN are in Rochester- docs at the Mayo clinic. I have another friend in Eagan. They are trying to convince me to relocate out there. We'll see.