self-absorbed, self-indulgent, self-centred...
it never ceases to amaze me that people can be so selfish.
It hurts because you care. That's a good thing. Never lose sight of that. The pain will pass and you will still care. Your kids and you will get through this. In the meantime, you are not alone.
We are here to help each other get through this thing, whatever it is.
-- Mark Vonnegut