Post #201,258
3/30/05 12:14:06 PM
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Worst weekend ever
Well, here's my Easter weekend in a nutshell.
There's something deeply wrong with my girlfriend (and the mother of my children); the spread from best to worst case is very wide, from drugs to major surgery to death, but we don't know which one it is yet. I was up there over the weekend, and I can say that this is definitely past the "bad test results" level and into the "there's something very bad that is clearly going on here" level.
A buddy got murdered over the weekend in a bar fight... by another buddy. They didn't know each other, but I knew both of them. They're both in their mid-twenties. I'm going to the memorial service later today. They were both very nice guys, and I'm still trying to figure out how it went so very badly pear-shaped, though I'm going to have to say that the guy that did the killing is no longer to be considered a buddy, as from what I can see he just went and killed the victim. I'm kind of wondering if he was wired on the ol' "beer and cocaine" combo which is well noted for its violent inclinations or some shit like that.
Finally, my business basically got pulled out from under me by a couple of the parties I was doing business with. The other party is livid, as am I, but considering what may be coming down the turnpike vis-a-vis the first item, it's probably a blessing in disguise. Either way, I will not be doing business with either the party of the first or second part again. Of course, winding it down is not going to be fun as I have some debits and credits to deal with.
Yep, it looking like it's going to be a great spring and summer this year.
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Post #201,266
3/30/05 12:25:36 PM
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Well, that sucks.
Hope the men in white coats can give you the answers you want to hear.
The other stuff? Well, life just doles out pure suck, sometimes.
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Post #201,270
3/30/05 12:31:29 PM
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Ummm . . . I don't think I'm going to try to top this one.
Condolences and good luck all around.
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Post #201,275
3/30/05 12:32:45 PM
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I'm sorry to hear of all that
I'll keep you and your girlfriend in my daily thoughts and prayers, and hope for the best news possible.
Brenda
"The people of the world having once been deceived, suspect deceit in truth itself." -- Hitopadesa 600?-1100? AD, Sanskrit Fable From Panchatantr
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Post #201,285
3/30/05 12:47:27 PM
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:-< Best of luck to your gal. Hang in there.
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Post #201,288
3/30/05 12:57:53 PM
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Condolences. Ask for help if we can do anything for you.
A good friend will come and bail you out of jail ... but, a true friend will be sitting next to you saying, "Damn...that was fun!"
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Post #201,289
3/30/05 12:59:40 PM
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Sorry to hear it, Jack!
Hang in there.
Alex
The trouble with the world is that the stupid are cocksure and the intelligent are full of doubt. -- Bertrand Russell
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Post #201,291
3/30/05 1:06:06 PM
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Damn. DAMN.
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- Paranoia Is a Survival Trait
- Pessimists are never disappointed - but sometimes, if they are very lucky, they can be pleasantly surprised...
- Even though everyone is out to get you, it doesn't matter unless you let them win.
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Post #201,292
3/30/05 1:09:50 PM
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Sincere Condolences.
-YendorMike
"They that can give up essential liberty to obtain a little temporary safety deserve neither liberty nor safety." - Benjamin Franklin, 1759 Historical Review of Pennsylvania
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Post #201,294
3/30/05 1:14:29 PM
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OK, you win the "We lived on the bottom of a lake" contest.
As Andrew said, no use trying to top *that* -- if this were that Monty Python sketch where they sit around trying to top each other's horrible childhood memories, you'd win hands down!
So, hey, at least you got to win the contest... Cheer you up much, duzzit? :-/
Eh, somewhat more seriously: Would a sudden influx of orders for, say, eComStation -- or some remote-consulting work -- help? (Or is it too late for that to be of any use, what with the "party of the second part" thing?)
Finally, hopeyarealise that those of us whose superstitions don't quite amount to full-blown psychoses (aka, religion) are keeping our fingers crossed, or otherwise doing whatever it is we do in lieu of praying.
Let us know if there's anything better we can do.
[link|mailto:MyUserId@MyISP.CountryCode|Christian R. Conrad] (I live in Finland, and my e-mail in-box is at the Saunalahti company.)
Your lies are of Microsoftian Scale and boring to boot. Your 'depression' may be the closest you ever come to recognizing truth: you have no 'inferiority complex', you are inferior - and something inside you recognizes this. - [link|http://z.iwethey.org/forums/render/content/show?contentid=71575|Ashton Brown]
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Post #201,295
3/30/05 1:18:11 PM
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Well said.
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Post #201,299
3/30/05 1:49:33 PM
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Keep your chin up.
That's an awful lot to get hit with in one weekend. I'm sorry for the loss of your friend and hope your GF's condition improves.
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Post #201,301
3/30/05 1:56:31 PM
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Sorry to hear.
Anything you need, holler.
-- Steve
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Post #201,302
3/30/05 2:04:14 PM
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That sets some sort of suck record
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Post #201,305
3/30/05 3:08:36 PM
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Really sorry to hear this.
If I can do anything to help just let me know.
----------------------------------------- "In this world of sin and sorrow there is always something to be thankful for. As for me, I rejoice that I am not a Republican." -- H. L. Mencken
Support our troops, Impeach Bush. D. D. Richards
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Post #201,322
3/30/05 5:25:16 PM
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Gah. Words fail me.
I have come to believe that idealism without discipline is a quick road to disaster, while discipline without idealism is pointless. -- Aaron Ward (my brother)
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Post #201,324
3/30/05 7:11:36 PM
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Holy sh*t
Sorry
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Post #201,325
3/30/05 7:26:06 PM
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Dittoed :-(
Regards,
-scott anderson
"Welcome to Rivendell, Mr. Anderson..."
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Post #201,327
3/30/05 7:52:42 PM
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dang Jake, I was going to start whining aboutmy problems
nevermind, if anything we can do let us know but good thoughts towards you and the gel, the business dealings, shit happens. thanx, bill
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Post #201,337
3/30/05 11:44:18 PM
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Don't they say things comes in threes?
At least you're still kicking, I guess. :-)
Wade.
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Post #201,352
3/31/05 3:35:35 AM
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Candle lighted
but with that much crap from the fickle-finger, I'd still be cursing the fucking darkness with gusto. May you at least get beyond the .. suspense torture, real soon.
Regards, Ashton
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Post #201,374
3/31/05 8:42:44 AM
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Thanks all
gonna have to pass this kidney stone sooner or later, so... I think I'm getting drunk this weekend.
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Post #201,381
3/31/05 9:13:51 AM
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and I'll get drunk as well!
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Post #201,391
3/31/05 9:39:06 AM
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Do you tend to
lose your faculty or self-constraint when drunk?
If so, you can come on up to Grand Rapids and have a few rounds on me. I have no ulterior motives either. At least none I'd admit to.
And yes, this is another of those tasteless jokes you have come to expect from me.
But, damn, we gotta cheer Jack up somehow. Here's hoping things resolve fairly quickly!
-- [link|mailto:greg@gregfolkert.net|greg], [link|http://www.iwethey.org/ed_curry|REMEMBER ED CURRY!] @ iwethey[link|http://it.slashdot.org/comments.pl?sid=134485&cid=11233230|"Microsoft Security" is an even better oxymoron than "Military Intelligence"] No matter how much Microsoft supporters whine about how Linux and other operating systems have just as many bugs as their operating systems do, the bottom line is that the serious, gut-wrenching problems happen on Windows, not on Linux, not on Mac OS. -- [link|http://www.eweek.com/article2/0,1759,1622086,00.asp|source]
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Post #201,394
3/31/05 10:00:22 AM
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Oh, man
And here I thought I found myself a new drinking buddy!
(And yes, I'm a wild, uninhibited and shameless drunk. See all the fun you'd be missing?)
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Post #201,396
3/31/05 10:17:40 AM
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Do you play dimes?
Regards,
-scott anderson
"Welcome to Rivendell, Mr. Anderson..."
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Post #201,398
3/31/05 10:21:46 AM
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Never played dimes- how do you play?
I'm great at quarter bounce- are they related?
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Post #201,399
3/31/05 10:25:00 AM
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To learn...
... come to the party. ;-)
Regards,
-scott anderson
"Welcome to Rivendell, Mr. Anderson..."
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Post #201,400
3/31/05 10:27:49 AM
3/31/05 10:31:09 AM
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Re: To learn...
Will I come home broke and hung over?
Never mind- I found the rules on the internet. It is a lot like quarters. I would kick your ass!
Dimes:
Required Materials: Beer, an ash tray, and several dimes (Note: No more than 2 dimes per person).
Objective: To land your dimes on the ashtray. Last person to have their dime land (and stay on) the ashtray has to drink.
Rules: Turn the ashtray upside down. This makes landing the dimes much harder. No person may have more than three dimes in front of him/her at any one time. If anyone notices a player with more than three dimes (either in their hand and/or in front of them) then they can call that person and s/he must drink before they can throw another dime. Throwing a dime is not actually a straight toss, but rather a bounce off the table onto (hopefully!) the ashtray. If it stays, then that player no longer needs to throw another dime, unless their dime gets knocked off, at which time they must again land another dime on the ashtray.
The player that lost the previous round starts the inital throw. Then it is basically a free for all (remember the three dime rule). The game ends when all but one player has a dime on the ashtray, at which time that player loses and must consume a set amount of beverage (BEER!). Then everyone can start the next game when they are ready. It gets a bit confusing when all the dimes get on the ashtray, so if there is any arguing about who's dime is on, both players in argument must drink and start over!
Edited by bionerd
March 31, 2005, 10:31:09 AM EST
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Post #201,401
3/31/05 10:29:20 AM
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Re: To learn...
Broke, or broken?
Hungover, definitely. Ask Greg about the Sunday after the first time we drove out there.
Regards,
-scott anderson
"Welcome to Rivendell, Mr. Anderson..."
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Post #201,404
3/31/05 10:33:27 AM
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Okay, Greg,
what about the Sunday after the first time you drove out?
(And I never end up broken!)
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Post #201,431
3/31/05 11:58:49 AM
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Pretty much, it went like this:
- I wake up, notice the time
- Try to wake up Scott
- Eat something left over
- Drink Coffee and LOTSA Diet Mountain Dew
- Notice Scott hasn't shown life signs yet
- Take a shower
- Wait another hour or so
- See the living dead show its face
- Wait some more til the blood gets to all parts of Scott's body
- Realize it won't happen
- Tell Zombie Scott to take a shower
- Wait some more
- Get all our trash in the car, including the pale one.
- Drive until about Ohio, before the second coming of Scott happens. This time with full color skin and vocabulary complaining about his back and his head
The day we left from Michigan, Scott had a biopsy of something on his back. It was sore. Maybe You even did the biopsy on it Lori! (larfle)... So basically ~6PM Scott finally awoke, mainly because of my bitching and complaining about the traffic... and my lack of foresight in Drinking $LARGE_AMOUNT of Diet Mountain Dew. Causing me to literally to do a tire and viaduct check. We only lost about, hmm, 10 Places? Right admin?
-- [link|mailto:greg@gregfolkert.net|greg], [link|http://www.iwethey.org/ed_curry|REMEMBER ED CURRY!] @ iwethey[link|http://it.slashdot.org/comments.pl?sid=134485&cid=11233230|"Microsoft Security" is an even better oxymoron than "Military Intelligence"] No matter how much Microsoft supporters whine about how Linux and other operating systems have just as many bugs as their operating systems do, the bottom line is that the serious, gut-wrenching problems happen on Windows, not on Linux, not on Mac OS. -- [link|http://www.eweek.com/article2/0,1759,1622086,00.asp|source]
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Post #201,447
3/31/05 1:33:17 PM
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That was the day that...
... 90% of the population of the US was trying to get through the toll gates on the Ohio-Penn border, from the looks of it.
And no, 12 hour trips with a back biopsy aren't too much fun. Especially with a massive hangover.
Regards,
-scott anderson
"Welcome to Rivendell, Mr. Anderson..."
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Post #201,408
3/31/05 10:41:17 AM
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Better broke and hung over than hung and broke over.
And no, that actually wasn't supposed to make much sense.
Look at it as a koan, or something. :-)
[link|mailto:MyUserId@MyISP.CountryCode|Christian R. Conrad] (I live in Finland, and my e-mail in-box is at the Saunalahti company.)
Your lies are of Microsoftian Scale and boring to boot. Your 'depression' may be the closest you ever come to recognizing truth: you have no 'inferiority complex', you are inferior - and something inside you recognizes this. - [link|http://z.iwethey.org/forums/render/content/show?contentid=71575|Ashton Brown]
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Post #201,441
3/31/05 12:26:42 PM
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Teehee. Nope
[link|http://www.runningworks.com|
] Imric's Tips for Living
- Paranoia Is a Survival Trait
- Pessimists are never disappointed - but sometimes, if they are very lucky, they can be pleasantly surprised...
- Even though everyone is out to get you, it doesn't matter unless you let them win.
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Nothing is as simple as it seems in the beginning, As hopeless as it seems in the middle, Or as finished as it seems in the end.
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Post #201,454
3/31/05 2:24:42 PM
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That isn't the game that I think Scott was thinking of...
Necessary equipment. One cup of water, one piece of tissue paper (toilet paper, etc), one dime, cigarettes for the contestants.
To start, wet the tissue and place it over the cup. (I don't remember whether you wet the whole thing, or just the edges.) In the middle place a dime. 2 players then start taking turns. In each turn you must burn one (and only one) hole in the tissue with your cigarette. The person whose hole causes the dime to fall in, loses.
Cheers, Ben
I have come to believe that idealism without discipline is a quick road to disaster, while discipline without idealism is pointless. -- Aaron Ward (my brother)
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Post #201,465
3/31/05 3:25:26 PM
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Uh, dumbass...?
Now we have no leverage to make her go to the party.
Regards,
-scott anderson
"Welcome to Rivendell, Mr. Anderson..."
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Post #201,469
3/31/05 3:34:23 PM
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No, now we have *more*
Now she'll try it with friends, kick their asses, and want to see how she'd stand up to some real competition!
Cheers, Ben
I have come to believe that idealism without discipline is a quick road to disaster, while discipline without idealism is pointless. -- Aaron Ward (my brother)
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Post #201,476
3/31/05 4:19:36 PM
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Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha!
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Post #201,418
3/31/05 11:25:33 AM
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Sorry to hear it... :(
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Post #201,425
3/31/05 11:44:00 AM
3/31/05 11:44:28 AM
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Jack...
Very sorry to hear. It seems that the "rule of threes" has been fulfilled in this case, and I'm very sorry to hear that the triad pivoted around you. I'm sending my best wishes to your ladyfriend..and to you, too!
jb4 shrub\ufffdbish (Am., from shrub + rubbish, after the derisive name for America's 43 president; 2003) n. 1. a form of nonsensical political doubletalk wherein the speaker attempts to defend the indefensible by lying, obfuscation, or otherwise misstating the facts; GIBBERISH. 2. any of a collection of utterances from America's putative 43rd president. cf. BULLSHIT
Edited by jb4
March 31, 2005, 11:44:28 AM EST
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Post #201,472
3/31/05 3:45:17 PM
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Condolences.
Not much I can say with that handful that will mean anything.
bcnu, Mikem
Eine Leute. Eine Welt. Ein F\ufffdhrer. God Bless America.
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Post #201,484
3/31/05 6:07:14 PM
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Wow. Sorry doesn't come near, but it will have to do. :(
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Post #201,619
4/1/05 11:14:45 PM
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sigh, that's a lot to carry
I hope you have some good friends nearby to talk to...
Have fun, Carl Forde
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