Tell her she should go pick out the area and find the job
that will allow you to live there.
I hear ya man, mine still whines about leaving Marin County - like we could ever afford to live there above the poverty line - especially now with no jobs in the bay area.
"Whenever you find you are on the side of the majority, it is time to pause and reflect" --Mark Twain
"The significant problems we face cannot be solved at the same level of thinking we were at when we created them." --Albert Einstein
"This is still a dangerous world. It's a world of madmen and uncertainty and potential mental losses." --George W. Bush