and a small wish for a bit down the line: that the bairn develop at least One special talent which his older brother can't come close to matching ;-)
Cornet.. I recommend starting him Early.
Develops Character (and obv Humility too).
(This has been completely unbiased advice. It is solely for his own Goodness. Honest.)
As to the 'pitocin' stuff - here we have Two indications, in just this thread - that the techno-heads seem not to have learned the foggiest about dose rates. Or maybe decimal points?
Now you may sleep the sleep of Deliverance.
Ashton