T: Most attributes belong to one and only one noun.
What about the marriage licence of a couple? Does it belong to to the husband, or the wife? Where should the marriage date be stored? What if they are married, divorced and remarried? To each other? To someone else?
The answers to these questions aren't hard, in either the relational world or the OO world.
T: As far as "grouping", things in a database can be grouped just about any way you want to see them. How they are grouped is not a design-time decision.
Now that's absolutely absurd. How data is grouped and arranged in tables is very much a design time exercise. And changing that arrangement is not invisible to the query code that extracts the data either.
In my current project, the database design has undergone at least 7 revisions, several of them quite extensive. I think we have finally found the proper schema (at least I hope we have). In contrast, the object model I drew up at the time of the original database design has remained unchanged throughout the entire revision history of the database. Oh wait, I forget. We did change the name of one of the classes (without changing any of its behavior).