Learn on your own. Pick a set of skills that's marketable and/or intellectually stimulating to you. Hie thee to a GNU/Linux distribution, and my very, very strong recommendation is Debian. For a learning platform, this offers the advantage of holding your hand in areas where you need it (getting the distro together). 3.0 installer by recent reports (Wade is my one remaining ain't tried Debian recently holdout, got Scott onto apt-lovin' goodness this past week) is pretty darned good. But there's not so much infrastructure there that you can't pop up the lid to see what's going on. In other words, a good mix betwee "sleek and packaged", but with ready access to all the working parts.
\r\n\r\nI've said it before, I'll say it again: I picked up UNIX in a Nutshell and UNIX Power Tools while on a SAS contract in 1995, and simply Started Learning. Get one box up. Learn basic admin and shell tools. Get a second box up. Learn networking in the process. Turn one into a dialout or DSL gateway/firewall. Learn security, firewalls, masquerading. If you're out of boxes, take a look at [link|http://twiki.iwethey.org/twiki/bin/view/Main/UserModeLinux|User Mode Linux] and create a few virtual systems, experimenting with networking and such. You'll get an appreciation for managing multiple systems, SSH tools, etc. Set up a local webserver (very easy with Debian), and start adding some stuff to it. Doesn't have to be visible to the outside world, though it might be.
\r\n\r\nWith your network starting to get too big to be readily manageable, apply some Perl or Python to managing it. Build command line tools to monitor and manipulate the system. Start using a database back-end to store some of your data. Set up a caching Web proxy and webwasher. Work out a backup strategy, and test it on one or more of your UML systems. Try out new packages, sign on to a mailing list, or read the technical discussions here. Discover that if you can't afford an O'Reilly habit, that the HOWTOs and other online docs are really good, and that many (HOWTOs, the RUTE manual, GNU/Linux Gazette, etc.) are available as Debian packages. Get active in local GNU/Linux or PC user groups, and share knowledge. Start looking for gigs in small business tech support.
\r\n\r\nIt's really up to you. Committments (family, work, life, gym, friends) can constrain, but you might also work out ways to integrate thing -- set up a small system for the kids, look at Debian Jr. for a set of kid-friendly (and safe!) packages. Register a domain and start managing the family's Internet presense -- email, website, etc. Go to town.
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