I hung out at Rocky Horror in Philly from 77-81, and then hung out with my gay BIL for 20 years.
I've met pretty much every combination.
Nothing beats a 6'2" slightly goth looking gay dude who was kicked out of med school for abuse of a corpse (he liked his dates to lie in an icy bathtub before getting busy).
Richard! I miss you dude, you were FUN. If I only knew his last name I could track him down. Oh well.
Well bman, you know where he is?