So, thanks to Steve Lowe, I now can specify the correct protocol...which of course causes the Modify Account dialog to change completely. I still have my screen name (jb4), but now it wants a Domain and a Resource (which it so helpfully sets to "Home").
Let's see...Domain is probably iwethey.org...I have no idea what the Resource might be, so I'll just leave it at the default.
On the newly revamped Advanced tab, it wants a connect port of 5222...that's probably ok...and a Connect Server. Hmmmm...is that conference.iwethey.org or just iwethey.org? Let's try the former.
HEY!! There's a Register button, just like Another Scott said! Cool...Let's press it.
Uhhh, bad news! Nastygram says:
jb4@iwethey.org/Home (jb4) (XMPP) disconnected
Could not establish a connection with the server:
Error resolving conference.iwethey.org: 11004
Pidgin will not attempt to reconnect the account until you correct the error and re-enable the account
Well, at least they're trying to be helpful. OK so it's bitching about conference.iwethey.org. Mebbe the trick is to change the Connect Server to just iwethey.com (as that's the only place that conference.iwethey.org was entered.
Make the change and click Register...
Hey! That sorta worked... after clearing the "Register this Account" dialog by clincking its Register button, it tells me that "Registration of jb4@iwethey.org successful"
K3wl! Now, how to start? Go to the Buddies menu entry...It seems I would want to join a chat. OK...more dialogs to fill out:
Account: already filled out; syas: jb4@iwethey.org/Home (jb4) (XMPP). That sounds about right (or, at least it is consistent with the stuff inthe Account dialog)
Room: IIRC, it is ziwt
Server: already filled out, it is conference.iwethey.com. Hey! That's what i was told to expect! Things are looking up!
Handle: already filled out, it says jb4. I can live with that...
Password: I thought it was supposed to remember my password from the accounts dialog...OK I'll re-enter it here,and try to figure out why it didn't remember later.
Click Join and...a teeny tiny box shows up...with a conversation in progress! With people whose handles I recognize!
NOw, since I have my window backgrounds set tot a dark grey, some of the colors the client has chosen for me ar a bit difficult. I can't seem to find a way to override them (Bad Pidgin...no french fry!). But it seems that I'm on Now to post something...
That seems to work! and Found a couple of people there, too.
Thanx one and all for the help.