She feels I owe her anyway.

Post #270,637 by static 10/18/06 3:20:50 AM Reply	She feels I owe her anyway. I pretty upset for quite a while when I first heard. I've been frustrating her mother for a little while now because she wants to lay into me about how I've treated her daughter, but I've stopped standing there taking it and answering back just encourages her. I've hung up on her at least once, and I've walked out of rooms several times. A few times I've informed her that her memory of events is faulty and left it at that. She has resisting accepting that I will not discuss past events with her whilst she is being combatative and certainly about things I can't change. So I'm already having as little to do with as possible. And made it clear that it's her mother who is inflaming things. Wade. "Insert crowbar. Apply force."
Post #270,639 by CRConrad 10/18/06 3:38:00 AM Reply	Good for you! Keep it up, and good luck.
Post #270,663 by tonytib 10/18/06 11:27:01 AM Reply	It can be advantageous to have your MIL on another continent
Post #270,669 by ChrisR 10/18/06 11:59:01 AM Reply	I'd prefer a different planet
Post #270,672 by tonytib 10/18/06 12:18:36 PM Reply	Naw, she's not that bad and besides, we can't communicate anyway (she doesn't speak English). --Tony
Post #270,679 by tuberculosis 10/18/06 1:30:41 PM 8/21/07 5:47:03 AM Reply	Lucky you [link\|http://www.blackbagops.net\|Black Bag Operations Log] [link\|http://www.objectiveclips.com\|Artificial Intelligence] [link\|http://www.badpage.info/seaside/html\|Scrutinizer] Edited by tuberculosis Aug. 21, 2007, 05:47:03 AM EDT Expand All History
Post #270,745 by imqwerky 10/18/06 8:23:52 PM Reply	That's what sign language is for and we all know some good ones Hehe! Smile, Amy [link\|http://kevan.org/brain.cgi?Amy%20Rathman\|Pics of the Family]
Post #270,761 by static 10/18/06 9:23:47 PM Reply	I used to get on okay with her. But we made the mistake of picking a place within an easy drive of her parents. Bad move. If we'd started a lot further away, then we'd have had to rely on them less and we would have had to solve things without our parents. Which isn't really solving things. So issues that a couple should normally take a few years to sort out stayed unsorted out until she couldn't take it anymore. Her mother is, not surprisingly, siding with her daughter over things. Wade. "Insert crowbar. Apply force."

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