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Post #262,550 by static 7/24/06 8:36:09 PM Reply	I share your pain. My wife and I are just about to part ways, too. Wade. "Insert crowbar. Apply force."
Post #262,551 by Another Scott 7/24/06 8:38:37 PM Reply	:-( I'm sorry. Please talk about it if it'll help - it doesn't have to be here. Find someone to share your feelings with. Hang in there. Cheers, Scott.
Post #262,553 by static 7/24/06 9:54:18 PM Reply	There's been problems for months. "Insert crowbar. Apply force."
Post #262,554 by Another Scott 7/24/06 10:03:35 PM Reply	There often are. You can start a new thread under a new ID if you'd like to keep it more anonymous. It's good to talk about it, even if doing so doesn't solve the problem. Sometimes a fresh perspective helps. I'm sure it's a tough situation for both of you. Hang in there. Cheers, Scott.
Post #262,556 by Ashton 7/24/06 10:10:54 PM Reply	Since yours is a generally level head it doesn't have to become nasty; most of us haven't been sanely prepared while growing up, for the fact that some personalities just won't dovetail, even after accommodations. (Wasn't Who Knew?? invented as the .zip equivalent of that?) FWIW and IME yada.. some formerly-marrieds become great friends, later on; their shared experience counts in uncountable ways. Commiserations, and ..Luck! Ashton
Post #262,558 by Andrew Grygus 7/24/06 10:26:18 PM Reply	Sometimes even during. There was the local divorce of Neil and Nancy. The visible reason for divorce was Neil's torrid affair with Eva, but who knows what else there may have been. mutual friend - "Have you heard about Nancy and Neil?" me - "Yes." friend - "Have you talked to either of them?" Me - "Yes, both, but not for a few days, they're on vacation up north." friend - "What do you mean they're on vacation? Together? They're getting a divorce!" me - "Yes, but they hold that the vacation was planned before the divorce so they're taking it." After the divorce Neil and Eva occasionally had Nancy over for dinner and sometimes they planned activities together. All in all the smoothest divorce I've seen or heard of. [link\|http://www.aaxnet.com\|AAx]
Post #262,580 by imqwerky 7/25/06 10:08:12 AM Reply	It's wonderful when people actually act like adults. Smile, Amy [link\|http://kevan.org/brain.cgi?Amy%20Rathman\|Pics of the Family]
Post #262,552 by inthane-chan 7/24/06 9:37:55 PM Reply	Ugh. I'm sorry to hear that. This has been a terrible year for marriages, hasn't it? Hurt me if you must, but let the duckie go!
Post #262,562 by broomberg 7/24/06 11:27:41 PM Reply	Every year is a terrible year for marriages Are you sure, as a species, we should even accept the concept?
Post #262,564 by Andrew Grygus 7/25/06 12:02:53 AM Reply	Problematic or not - it's probably necessary. The main problem is the length of time, attention and particularly the expense of bringing up human children. Marriage may not be a really good solution to this problem but it seems to be the best one we've got. [link\|http://www.aaxnet.com\|AAx]
Post #262,574 by JayMehaffey 7/25/06 9:12:35 AM Reply	Concentration camp?
Post #262,565 by Meerkat 7/25/06 2:22:34 AM Reply	:-( Sorry to hear it. Two out of three people wonder where the other one is.
Post #262,566 by Steve Lowe 7/25/06 2:29:26 AM Reply	So sorry to hear, Wade. :-( -- Steve [link\|http://www.ubuntulinux.org\|Ubuntu]
Post #262,569 by boxley 7/25/06 8:37:26 AM Reply	Aww cheese :-( dunno what to say fling me an email iffen you want to harang about it bill Any opinions expressed by me are mine alone, posted from my home computer, on my own time as a free american and do not reflect the opinions of any person or company that I have had professional relations with in the past 50 years. meep
Post #262,573 by JayMehaffey 7/25/06 9:11:54 AM Reply	Sorry to hear that
Post #262,575 by admin 7/25/06 9:15:52 AM Reply	Condolences, Wade. Feel free to email me if you want. Regards, -scott anderson "Welcome to Rivendell, Mr. Anderson..."
Post #262,577 by drewk 7/25/06 9:33:41 AM Reply	Damn damn damn damn damn Best wishes, FWIW. === Purveyor of Doc Hope's [link\|http://DocHope.com\|fresh-baked dog biscuits and pet treats]. [link\|http://DocHope.com\|http://DocHope.com]
Post #262,582 by imqwerky 7/25/06 10:12:35 AM Reply	Sorry things suck so much. If you need a female perspective, you can email me at imquirky at comcast dotnet. Hang in there, Wade. Hugs, Amy [link\|http://kevan.org/brain.cgi?Amy%20Rathman\|Pics of the Family]
Post #262,642 by static 7/26/06 2:28:55 AM Reply	I'm living one day at a time. :-) "Insert crowbar. Apply force."
Post #262,587 by jbrabeck 7/25/06 12:10:31 PM Reply	Nothing to add, just condolenses. A positive attitude may not solve all your problems, but it will annoy enough people to make it worth the effort. (Herm Albright)
Post #262,589 by jb4 7/25/06 12:40:47 PM Reply	Sorry to hear. More "Damn!" (Seems there's a never-ending supply of that stuff, doesn't it?) jb4 "So don't pay attention to the approval ratings that say 68% of Americans disapprove of the job this man is doing. I ask you this, does that not also logically mean that 68% approve of the job he's not doing? Think about it. I haven't." — Stephen Colbert, at the White House Correspondent's Dinner 29Apr06

Just so the e-mails stop. - (folkert) - (46) - July 20, 2006, 05:25:41 PM EDT

Damn! - (jb4) - July 20, 2006, 05:32:43 PM EDT

Like I said, give me a call if you want. -NT - (admin) - July 20, 2006, 05:34:43 PM EDT

pickup the phone iffen you need to -NT - (boxley) - July 20, 2006, 05:54:21 PM EDT

I'm really sorry to hear that Greg - (jake123) - July 20, 2006, 05:55:38 PM EDT

You know where I live - (bepatient) - July 20, 2006, 06:44:58 PM EDT

I'm very sorry, Greg. - (Another Scott) - July 20, 2006, 07:21:25 PM EDT

And I thought I had bad luck lately. - (inthane-chan) - July 20, 2006, 07:33:36 PM EDT

I'm glad I hugged you at the Bash. - (imqwerky) - July 20, 2006, 07:36:45 PM EDT

Hang tough, Greg -NT - (tjsinclair) - July 20, 2006, 08:44:46 PM EDT

Dude. - (imric) - July 20, 2006, 09:09:02 PM EDT

Ditto the all the above thoughts. - (jbrabeck) - July 20, 2006, 11:19:17 PM EDT

ouch - (cforde) - July 21, 2006, 02:37:48 AM EDT

Redundant - see A Scott's ref below. -NT - (Ashton) - July 21, 2006, 04:36:23 AM EDT

So sorry, Greg. Hang in there. - (hnick) - July 21, 2006, 05:37:49 AM EDT

Keep your chin up. - (pwhysall) - July 21, 2006, 07:21:15 AM EDT

So sorry to hear this - (Silverlock) - July 21, 2006, 09:01:28 AM EDT

Nothing to say, but sorry man -NT - (drewk) - July 21, 2006, 09:19:31 AM EDT

:-( -NT - (SpiceWare) - July 21, 2006, 11:08:48 AM EDT

Ouch, Hang Tough -NT - (JayMehaffey) - July 21, 2006, 02:38:27 PM EDT

ditto on the above and... - (slugbug) - July 21, 2006, 02:41:38 PM EDT

As one who has also stood at the edge of that cliff - (lincoln) - July 21, 2006, 10:25:25 PM EDT

Sorry as well -NT - (broomberg) - July 21, 2006, 10:54:34 PM EDT

Sorry, hang in bud -NT - (Bman) - July 23, 2006, 12:44:30 AM EDT

I share your pain. - (static) - (20) - July 24, 2006, 08:36:09 PM EDT

:-( - (Another Scott) - (5) - July 24, 2006, 08:38:37 PM EDT

There's been problems for months. -NT - (static) - (4) - July 24, 2006, 09:54:18 PM EDT

There often are. - (Another Scott) - July 24, 2006, 10:03:35 PM EDT

Since yours is a generally level head - (Ashton) - (2) - July 24, 2006, 10:10:54 PM EDT

Sometimes even during. - (Andrew Grygus) - (1) - July 24, 2006, 10:26:18 PM EDT

It's wonderful when people actually act like adults. -NT - (imqwerky) - July 25, 2006, 10:08:12 AM EDT

Ugh. - (inthane-chan) - (3) - July 24, 2006, 09:37:55 PM EDT

Every year is a terrible year for marriages - (broomberg) - (2) - July 24, 2006, 11:27:41 PM EDT

Problematic or not - it's probably necessary. - (Andrew Grygus) - (1) - July 25, 2006, 12:02:53 AM EDT

Concentration camp? -NT - (JayMehaffey) - July 25, 2006, 09:12:35 AM EDT

:-( Sorry to hear it. -NT - (Meerkat) - July 25, 2006, 02:22:34 AM EDT

So sorry to hear, Wade. :-( -NT - (Steve Lowe) - July 25, 2006, 02:29:26 AM EDT

Aww cheese :-( dunno what to say - (boxley) - July 25, 2006, 08:37:26 AM EDT

Sorry to hear that -NT - (JayMehaffey) - July 25, 2006, 09:11:54 AM EDT

Condolences, Wade. - (admin) - July 25, 2006, 09:15:52 AM EDT

Damn damn damn damn damn - (drewk) - July 25, 2006, 09:33:41 AM EDT

Sorry things suck so much. - (imqwerky) - (1) - July 25, 2006, 10:12:35 AM EDT

I'm living one day at a time. :-) -NT - (static) - July 26, 2006, 02:28:55 AM EDT

Nothing to add, just condolenses. -NT - (jbrabeck) - July 25, 2006, 12:10:31 PM EDT

Sorry to hear. - (jb4) - July 25, 2006, 12:40:47 PM EDT

My support and prayers are with both of you - (Nightowl) - July 27, 2006, 09:19:19 AM EDT

Damn it, Greg! Things got worse. - (a6l6e6x) - July 30, 2006, 02:29:42 PM EDT

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