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New There's been problems for months.
"Insert crowbar. Apply force."
New There often are.
You can start a new thread under a new ID if you'd like to keep it more anonymous.

It's good to talk about it, even if doing so doesn't solve the problem. Sometimes a fresh perspective helps.

I'm sure it's a tough situation for both of you.

Hang in there.

Cheers,
Scott.
New Since yours is a generally level head
it doesn't have to become nasty; most of us haven't been sanely prepared while growing up, for the fact that some personalities just won't dovetail, even after accommodations.

(Wasn't Who Knew?? invented as the .zip equivalent of that?)

FWIW and IME yada.. some formerly-marrieds become great friends, later on; their shared experience counts in uncountable ways.


Commiserations, and ..Luck!

Ashton

New Sometimes even during.
There was the local divorce of Neil and Nancy. The visible reason for divorce was Neil's torrid affair with Eva, but who knows what else there may have been.

mutual friend - "Have you heard about Nancy and Neil?"
me - "Yes."
friend - "Have you talked to either of them?"
Me - "Yes, both, but not for a few days, they're on vacation up north."
friend - "What do you mean they're on vacation? Together? They're getting a divorce!"
me - "Yes, but they hold that the vacation was planned before the divorce so they're taking it."

After the divorce Neil and Eva occasionally had Nancy over for dinner and sometimes they planned activities together. All in all the smoothest divorce I've seen or heard of.

[link|http://www.aaxnet.com|AAx]
New It's wonderful when people actually act like adults.
Smile,
Amy

[link|http://kevan.org/brain.cgi?Amy%20Rathman|Pics of the Family]
     Just so the e-mails stop. - (folkert) - (46)
         Damn! - (jb4)
         Like I said, give me a call if you want. -NT - (admin)
         pickup the phone iffen you need to -NT - (boxley)
         I'm really sorry to hear that Greg - (jake123)
         You know where I live - (bepatient)
         I'm very sorry, Greg. - (Another Scott)
         And I thought I had bad luck lately. - (inthane-chan)
         I'm glad I hugged you at the Bash. - (imqwerky)
         Hang tough, Greg -NT - (tjsinclair)
         Dude. - (imric)
         Ditto the all the above thoughts. - (jbrabeck)
         ouch - (cforde)
         Redundant - see A Scott's ref below. -NT - (Ashton)
         So sorry, Greg. Hang in there. - (hnick)
         Keep your chin up. - (pwhysall)
         So sorry to hear this - (Silverlock)
         Nothing to say, but sorry man -NT - (drewk)
         :-( -NT - (SpiceWare)
         Ouch, Hang Tough -NT - (JayMehaffey)
         ditto on the above and... - (slugbug)
         As one who has also stood at the edge of that cliff - (lincoln)
         Sorry as well -NT - (broomberg)
         Sorry, hang in bud -NT - (Bman)
         I share your pain. - (static) - (20)
             :-( - (Another Scott) - (5)
                 There's been problems for months. -NT - (static) - (4)
                     There often are. - (Another Scott)
                     Since yours is a generally level head - (Ashton) - (2)
                         Sometimes even during. - (Andrew Grygus) - (1)
                             It's wonderful when people actually act like adults. -NT - (imqwerky)
             Ugh. - (inthane-chan) - (3)
                 Every year is a terrible year for marriages - (broomberg) - (2)
                     Problematic or not - it's probably necessary. - (Andrew Grygus) - (1)
                         Concentration camp? -NT - (JayMehaffey)
             :-( Sorry to hear it. -NT - (Meerkat)
             So sorry to hear, Wade. :-( -NT - (Steve Lowe)
             Aww cheese :-( dunno what to say - (boxley)
             Sorry to hear that -NT - (JayMehaffey)
             Condolences, Wade. - (admin)
             Damn damn damn damn damn - (drewk)
             Sorry things suck so much. - (imqwerky) - (1)
                 I'm living one day at a time. :-) -NT - (static)
             Nothing to add, just condolenses. -NT - (jbrabeck)
             Sorry to hear. - (jb4)
         My support and prayers are with both of you - (Nightowl)
         Damn it, Greg! Things got worse. - (a6l6e6x)

And if I'm just going for effect, I might as well wear a tie. And pants.
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