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Post #247,476 by ben_tilly 3/10/06 12:20:36 PM Reply	Um... It sounds to me like John is asking you to enter into an agreement where you'll only be allowed to talk to John. I don't know details, but that sounds very unhealthy to me. I certainly wouldn't do that or ask that of anyone. And if someone asked it of me, I'd take it as a huge danger sign. Regards, Ben I have come to believe that idealism without discipline is a quick road to disaster, while discipline without idealism is pointless. -- Aaron Ward (my brother)
Post #247,479 by Nightowl 3/10/06 12:31:16 PM Reply	Re: Um... It sounds to me like John is asking you to enter into an agreement where you'll only be allowed to talk to John. No, an impartial mediator is asking me to enter into an agreement where I can only talk to John or post in here (and a couple other private places). I don't know details, but that sounds very unhealthy to me. I certainly wouldn't do that or ask that of anyone. And if someone asked it of me, I'd take it as a huge danger sign. Trust me, John took it as such, and told her I would not be able to cope with that arrangement. He's right. Brenda "When you take charge of your life, there is no longer need to ask permission of other people or society at large. When you ask permission, you give someone veto power over your life." By Geoffrey F. Abert
Post #247,483 by jake123 3/10/06 12:46:33 PM Reply	Besides which this place is a lot of things, but private ain't one of them. --\n-------------------------------------------------------------------\n* Jack Troughton jake at consultron.ca \n [link\|http://consultron.ca\|http://consultron.ca] [link\|irc://irc.ecomstation.ca\|irc://irc.ecomstation.ca] \n Kingston Ontario Canada [link\|news://news.consultron.ca\|news://news.consultron.ca] *\n-------------------------------------------------------------------
Post #247,485 by Nightowl 3/10/06 12:49:28 PM Reply	I know But Katie and the rest of the family don't come here. Brenda "When you take charge of your life, there is no longer need to ask permission of other people or society at large. When you ask permission, you give someone veto power over your life." By Geoffrey F. Abert

Truly not coping - (Nightowl) - (41) - March 10, 2006, 03:58:21 AM EST

OK, vibing away... HTH! -NT - (CRConrad) - March 10, 2006, 04:02:44 AM EST

Good vibes on the way - (hnick) - (2) - March 10, 2006, 07:10:42 AM EST

Re: Good vibes on the way - (Nightowl) - (1) - March 10, 2006, 12:33:02 PM EST

You'll need less luck if you don't let them kick you around - (hnick) - March 10, 2006, 01:14:55 PM EST

Do you drink? If so, have a glass of wine. - (Another Scott) - (2) - March 10, 2006, 07:50:29 AM EST

Alcohol, the cause of and solution to all of life's problems - (ChrisR) - (1) - March 10, 2006, 03:24:36 PM EST

:-) -NT - (Another Scott) - March 10, 2006, 04:17:25 PM EST

those folks are not that important, vibes on the way -NT - (boxley) - March 10, 2006, 07:51:58 AM EST

Sorry to hear, - (Steve Lowe) - (19) - March 10, 2006, 10:49:19 AM EST

Re: Sorry to hear, - (Nightowl) - (18) - March 10, 2006, 12:29:38 PM EST

Here's the plan - (Nightowl) - (17) - March 10, 2006, 12:48:32 PM EST

just ignore Katie - (boxley) - March 10, 2006, 12:53:59 PM EST

The answer I would give them is - (Silverlock) - March 10, 2006, 01:46:06 PM EST

you and your family - (rcareaga) - March 10, 2006, 06:34:19 PM EST

Screw them - (Arkadiy) - March 10, 2006, 07:44:38 PM EST

Here's the answer. - (Another Scott) - (12) - March 10, 2006, 08:06:58 PM EST

Update With Good News! -- and thanks for the input - (Nightowl) - (11) - March 13, 2006, 12:57:18 PM EST

WTH? - (admin) - (9) - March 13, 2006, 01:50:49 PM EST

Re: WTH? - (Andrew Grygus) - (1) - March 13, 2006, 02:55:31 PM EST

Chronologically. - (admin) - March 13, 2006, 03:31:12 PM EST

Short explanation - (Nightowl) - (6) - March 13, 2006, 03:49:56 PM EST

No it doesn't - (drewk) - (5) - March 13, 2006, 06:47:27 PM EST

Why, I have before me - - my copy of Dick Feynman's - (Ashton) - (3) - March 14, 2006, 03:57:45 AM EST

Re: Why, I have before me - - my copy of Dick Feynman's - (Nightowl) - (2) - March 17, 2006, 01:37:13 PM EST

Agree.. horse of another color - (Ashton) - (1) - March 17, 2006, 10:44:05 PM EST

Re: Agree.. horse of another color - (Nightowl) - March 17, 2006, 10:56:27 PM EST

To clarify - (Nightowl) - March 17, 2006, 01:30:47 PM EST

Contracts for relationships? - (pwhysall) - March 14, 2006, 07:16:53 AM EST

My personal feeling is - (jake123) - March 10, 2006, 11:04:01 AM EST

What da Hell? - (Andrew Grygus) - (4) - March 10, 2006, 11:46:44 AM EST

WTF. I completely concur with Andrew - (jbrabeck) - March 10, 2006, 12:12:21 PM EST

Re: What da Hell? - (Nightowl) - (2) - March 10, 2006, 03:14:52 PM EST

Not your responsibility - (Steve Lowe) - (1) - March 10, 2006, 03:20:35 PM EST

Owl, before you reply think about this too - (jbrabeck) - March 10, 2006, 03:48:31 PM EST

Um... - (ben_tilly) - (3) - March 10, 2006, 12:20:36 PM EST

Re: Um... - (Nightowl) - (2) - March 10, 2006, 12:31:16 PM EST

Besides which - (jake123) - (1) - March 10, 2006, 12:46:33 PM EST

I know - (Nightowl) - March 10, 2006, 12:49:28 PM EST

You Got it! - (jb4) - March 10, 2006, 01:29:22 PM EST

"May the force be with you!" :) -NT - (a6l6e6x) - (1) - March 10, 2006, 05:19:51 PM EST

Re: "May the force be with you!" :) - (Nightowl) - March 10, 2006, 05:48:00 PM EST

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