bionerd says that she wants a Neanderthal, and people start trying to impress her. ;-)

But you're right. I did go overboard. I shouldn't have made my post that personal. I'm sorry for having done so.

However I still think it obvious that guys who are successful with women tend to be jerks. Cause and effect is not so obvious, but the correlation is clear.

A note about cause and effect in this case. Most here seem to believe that jerks have an advantage with women. But cause could easily go the other way: if you have easy success with women, you have less incentive to pay attention to their feelings. And the relationship might be very indirect. For instance practice makes perfect. So men who are really good at picking up women are likely to be men who have done a lot of it. Which gives jerks an advantage, because they keep picking up women after they've already succeeded.

But whatever the cause, we've all seen the result. There are a lot of jerks who are unreasonably successful with women.

Cheers,
Ben