Exactly the situation.

Post #238,330 by Andrew Grygus 12/16/05 2:00:49 PM Reply	Exactly the situation. The problem is the jerks succeed and women marry them or work out some other arrangement - then want the jerk to turn into the kind of guy that couldn't get their attention. Of course, he's already been trained as to "what works" and sees no incentive to give that up. "When a man and a woman get married, she thinks she can change him and he thinks she'll never change. Both are wrong." [link\|http://www.aaxnet.com\|AAx]
Post #238,348 by broomberg 12/16/05 4:32:00 PM Reply	I think it is a matter of numbers and no fear of rejection The jerk will keep asking as many as possible woman to date, and will push for what he wants as soon as possible. If you come across many women on an ongoing basis, and approach all of them that you consider the slightest bit attactive, then it is simply a matter of time before you score. But the key issue is not to stop asking new ones. Keep the current one for occasional sex, refuse to commit to anything that is not immediate pleasurable for you, and keep trying for new ones. Always have the excuse that you are running out on a business meeting, etc, to show both how important you are and while you really want to commit, it would be unfair to her since you are never around. After a while, you've built up a list that you can called upon as desired.
Post #238,385 by Silverlock 12/16/05 9:02:55 PM Reply	Bill Hicks said/sang it best Chicks dig jerks. While I know that's incredibly shallow, it's nevertheless pretty damned accurate. At least for some women. Most every woman I've had a relationship with has some horror story of the bad boy she fell for. A couple of them proceeded to go back to him after me. One of them was meeting up with the ex while we were living together. And he was a true prize, on probation for B&E, the asshole found out where I lived, broke in and ripped me off. While she was living with me. She left, got back with him, got beat up, came back to me and asked to be taken back. I said no. I don't do that. I personally know one couple who only stay together because the sex is good. Nothing else whatsoever about that relationship is healthy. Big house, frightened kids, suspicious bruises, screaming fights, etc. but they're good in bed so that makes it all worthwhile, right? On the gripping hand, I know several couples who have healthy and mutually supportive relationships. Wish I knw how they did it. Let me say that again; I wish I knew how they did it. ----------------------------------------- No new taxes. --George H. W. Bush We don't torture. --George W. Bush
Post #238,387 by boxley 12/16/05 9:13:49 PM Reply	paragraph 2 smackgobs me had one of those once, stitches all over my head, but boy could she shake that thang. Trouble is I wasnt the only one she was shaking it at, that will take the glow off. thanx, bill "the reason people don't buy conspiracy theories is that they think conspiracy means everyone is on the same program. Thats not how it works. Everybody has a different program. They just all want the same guy dead. Socrates was a gadfly, but I bet he took time out to screw somebodies wife" Gus Vitelli Any opinions expressed by me are mine alone, posted from my home computer, on my own time as a free american and do not reflect the opinions of any person or company that I have had professional relations with in the past 49 years. meep questions, help? [link\|mailto:pappas@catholic.org\|email pappas at catholic.org]

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