My airport manager's advice.
Was talking to him about raising kids. He said, "Don't worry too much about not giving them enough, not being there for them enough, etc. They're going to grow up and hate you anyway, so why worry?" :-)
bcnu,
Mikem
It would seem, therefore, that the three human impulses embodied in religion are fear, conceit, and hatred. The purpose of religion, one might say, is to give an air of respectibility to these passions. -- Bertrand Russell