Post #228,427
10/6/05 1:52:52 PM
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Another thought
Next time you talk to "the girls", ask them which of their male friends (that they're not sleeping with) is the most attractive. If they have an answer, or even stop to think about it, they've noticed the naughty bits.
<gross_generalization>Women notice an attractive man just as much as men notice an attractive woman. But if men admit it, we're accused of wanting to sleep with her. Which we do, but that's not the point.</gross_generalization>
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Post #228,431
10/6/05 2:12:17 PM
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As long as we're on gross generalizations . . . .
What women find most attractive in a man is evidence of wealth and a propensity to spend it unwisely. This is why a Porsche is such an effective attractor.
I notice in my age group the phrase "economically secure" and similar crude euphamisms are no longer used in singles ads. The universal ploy is now listing "Travel" as a most important interest, clearly implying that an acceptable man has plenty of leasure time and plenty of money.
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Post #228,434
10/6/05 2:27:59 PM
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Want honesty? Check out the Russian Bride sites
Forget "likes travel" or "financially secure". These girls either haven't learned euphamism in English yet, or they just don't care. They want someone who's "generous".
Don't ask me how I know this.
Okay, since I know you'll ask, I work with a guy who's recently divorced.
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Post #228,436
10/6/05 2:30:24 PM
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Oh, when they say "generous" I assume they mean FAT
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Post #228,447
10/6/05 3:08:51 PM
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Havn't checked out any sites, but . . .
. . I've received a few emails. "Agency" teaches them that American men are just tired of dealing with American women and are looking for a woman who's obedient, worshipful, supportive and tolerant of abuse.
Their letters follow a set formula and sometimes it's pretty funny. The most recent one I received was one from an actually very attractive lady telling me that all she wants is to cook and keep house and keep her man happy. Then you read the fine print. She's got two engineering degrees and a strong background managing serious scale civil engineering and utility projects. Ummmmm . . . cooking and vacuuming, Yeah?
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Post #228,451
10/6/05 3:23:23 PM
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Go for that one
When she shows up, tell her, "Look, I know you want a career, and frankly i'd get bored with a glorified maid anyway. Take me as I am and don't fool around and I'll treat you as an equal." Nothing wrong with both of you exceeding expectations.
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Post #228,442
10/6/05 2:55:13 PM
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I cant dispute your experiences
But honestly Andrew, we're not all like that!
Jesus was a star last week.
Now he's tending bar on Melrose.
Welcome to Hollywood.
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Post #228,450
10/6/05 3:23:06 PM
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Actually, my experiences aren't like that . . .
. . because women like that obviously won't have anything to do with me - I'm comfortable living below my means.
The exceptions do, however, prove the rule (proper meaning of the phrase: prove = test, as in a proof house that tests guns, not as in a mathematical proof). In real life the exceptions are pretty common, but in singles ads they are very rare.
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Post #228,546
10/6/05 11:06:32 PM
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Nicole's personal ad must be like that.
[link|http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/science/nature/4317536.stm|Nicole traveled from South Africa to Australia and back in 9 months].
Wow!
Cheers,
Scott.
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Post #228,441
10/6/05 2:52:23 PM
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The "girls" are a bunch of therapists
so we cant discuss anything without analyzing it to death from several different angles. But heck yeah, we talk about our male friends and which celebrities we'd like to bed. But grossly generalizing, it's not a man's naught bits that catch our attention. We dont run around saying "did you see that guy's package?!" It's more his face, his eyes, his smile.. things like that. Our fantasies involve him staring into our eyes and taking us lovingly in his arms before the banging commences.
Jesus was a star last week.
Now he's tending bar on Melrose.
Welcome to Hollywood.
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Post #228,452
10/6/05 3:23:50 PM
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So why do you expect to find a man who *doesn't* notice?
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Post #228,459
10/6/05 3:46:00 PM
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I dont.
I never said I did. I'm simply posing questions and mulling over your answers.
Jesus was a star last week.
Now he's tending bar on Melrose.
Welcome to Hollywood.
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Post #228,466
10/6/05 4:16:48 PM
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Okay, maybe you don't want it
But [link|http://z.iwethey.org/forums/render/content/show?contentid=228394|this]: I'm talking no fantasies, no fleeting thoughts, no appreciation of her mammaries, rear end or other naughty bits. No desire. No curiosity. says you're interested in the possibility. ===
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Post #228,467
10/6/05 4:19:48 PM
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No it doesnt
I'm only questioning if such a beast exists.
Quit over analyzing things. That's my job.
Jesus was a star last week.
Now he's tending bar on Melrose.
Welcome to Hollywood.
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Post #228,468
10/6/05 4:21:49 PM
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You obviously don't understand DrewK's role here.
He over analyzes everything. That is why he is in QA.
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Post #228,474
10/6/05 4:26:38 PM
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No... no, that is definitely Drew's job.
I believe he has a wider scope of analization*, however.
* Yes, the spelling is intentional.
Regards,
-scott anderson
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Post #228,470
10/6/05 4:24:25 PM
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So then eyes, etc, ARE the "naughty bits" for your gang.
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Post #228,479
10/6/05 4:30:59 PM
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The voice, don't forget the voice!
That's a biggie too, doncha think, girls?
Since when is a voice a naughty bit? Or eyes?
We are just more intuitive, that's all.
Peace,
Amy
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Post #228,500
10/6/05 6:36:32 PM
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stealth sex
a couple of times when I was single we would be discussing politics, civilization, music, the arts and then I would here a gasp "hey! I hope you're wearing a rubber!"
he,
thanx,
bill
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Post #228,628
10/7/05 12:34:22 PM
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Diet Coke through the nose!
bcnu,
Mikem
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