Is your GF child
Autistic?
I ask because he sounds just like one of the kids on my baseball team (9-10 y/o). Wants to do it his way, gets upset when shown the "correct" way. Just walks off the field if he decides that he doesn't want to play, or it's too hot, or ...
Difficult
When they took the Fourth Amendment, I was quiet because I didn't deal drugs.
When they took the Fifth Amendment, I was quiet because I was innocent.
When they took the Second Amendment, I was quiet because I didn't own a gun.
Now they've taken the First Amendment, and I can't say anything about it.