It’s a coping mechanism indeed. It happens not to be one available to most of us here, and “God’s plan” is of course 100% USDA Grade A (or perhaps, taking into account the steady dismantling of regulatory standards in this sector, the metaphor is ill-chosen) fantasy, but if it serves the purpose of in some measure ameliorating the family’s grief, well I, having never had the experience of being up close and personal to the death of a child, am not going to be the one who dope-slaps them and snarls “Get a clue, you witless yokels.”
cordially,
cordially,