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New One small logical error there...
The ability of one spouse to find employment is not always the only key attribute. Often there are other factors which must be considered before a move.

There are many reasons that someone can be tied to a geographical location, including by having a job, taking care of a sick family member (often moving old people or moving them into an openly dependent position can trigger a downhill slide), or being enrolled in an educational program. In these cases the inability of the other partner to get a job
there may not be more important than the existing tie.

Put another way, being in an equal relationship means that either person's needs may take priority over the other's depending on a natural give and take.

Now I don't know Norm's situation, but this one strikes home to me given that in the next year I may have to move 1-2 times for my wife, and if I can't find employment it is, "Oh shit, see if we can borrow money." (The issue here being that my wife's educational prospects trump my current employment as a concern.)

Cheers,
Ben
New Re: One small logical error there...
Yup, there can be other factors.

My situation, for example, is my son. He lives with me currently and spends weekends with his mom in Colorado Springs. If I were to make a move to another state, that would essentially be taking my son away from his mother..or him staying here with her and me not being able to see him. Not a good case either way.

I'm stuck here (happily tho :-))
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Steve
     Alternatives to IT work - (nking) - (31)
         What do you like? - (Another Scott) - (8)
             I am limited, it seems - (nking) - (7)
                 Only by your own thoughts - (Steve Lowe)
                 Limited by your own definition of "good", perhaps? - (CRConrad) - (4)
                     One small logical error there... - (ben_tilly) - (1)
                         Re: One small logical error there... - (Steve Lowe)
                     Dont forget Mrs Nking has a stable Job - (boxley) - (1)
                         Yes she does - (nking)
                 You're confusing wants and needs. - (Another Scott)
         Stop thinking and start doing - (mhuber) - (4)
             Get out there and do SOMETHING - (mhuber) - (3)
                 I am out there coach, but nobody is passing me the ball - (nking) - (2)
                     Nobody ever passes anybody the ball - ya gotta steal it - (mhuber) - (1)
                         and ... "Stuart Saves His Family"! - (Another Scott)
         bad back leaves out firefighting - (boxley) - (1)
             You are right - (nking)
         How about teaching? - (tjsinclair) - (3)
             Good people skills - (nking) - (2)
                 You could teach an online course... - (tjsinclair) - (1)
                     That would work - (nking)
         Strong Interest Inventory, WCIYP - (kmself) - (7)
             Strong (heh!) second on both counts! -NT - (Steve Lowe)
             I took one of those in high school - (nking) - (5)
                 Norm - get a lawyer ASAP - (bconnors) - (4)
                     Where do I look for a lawyer? - (nking) - (3)
                         Can you remember any law firms that your old one hated? - (boxley) - (1)
                             Nope, cannot remember them - (nking)
                         lots of places - (bconnors)
         Other jobs I could work for - (nking) - (2)
             Attention: Norm.... - (slugbug) - (1)
                 Thanks, - (nking)

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