Sometimes you just can't win.
Well maybe I did after all. :) The moderator who upset my friend decided to quit. She's been pretty headstrong and I found that people had been somewhat intimidated by her, cause the other mods came out of the woodwork with suggestions and posts after she left. Then my friend was sorry for all the awful things she said to me, apologized, said she felt like a jerk and that I was a great moderator... that helped a lot.
Then, she rejoined the group, which really pepped up morale, so we have a better happier group in the long run.
And the SWFC hasn't been bugging me for (looking at watch), three days, 13 hours and 14 minutes! Knock on wood!
Nightowl >8#