These people acquiesce to their governments. Why is there no bloody mass uprising of the people against Saddam Hussein? Because anyone who opposes him will die? This is only an acceptable reason to those who would rather let evil flourish than die fighting it. Granted, that's most people, but that doesn't make it right.
And how did he get so strong in the first place? Surely there was a point in history where he could easily have been removed from power by the people. That hour has passed, but whose fault is that?
I oppose nuking the country responsible for these attacks. I oppose this because innocent children would die. But I would shed few tears for their parents. Maybe they could have done something, maybe not. But they could have at least tried.