State your desires and your motivations re cost. See if he laughs, cries or hangs up. Or do you see some value in an endless series of what-ifs?
You seem on the verge of again confusing peoples' responses to certain posts as an 'attack' on you personally. If they didn't care, do you think anyone would bother to reply at all? Do you think there just might be something to the specific criticisms made, mainly about your way of asking questions?
You know.. that link kindly offered recently re [link|http://www.tuxedo.org/~esr/faqs/smart-questions.html| How To Ask Questions] appears to have gone Zooom - right over your head. Again. (Not to mention the extensive FAQs at linuxmafia.com - for just one quite ept presentation in plain English) I imagine that the same principles apply regardless of the OS (?)
We both know that *I* couldn't answer your technical questions. Obviously others here could: if they knew what you'd done, what results were puzzling and what you were trying to do. And how much research you had done. And whether you really cared to try hard enough to finish.
That last one seems to make a large difference; not merely re IT matters either. It certainly does to me, when I'm deciding how much energy to donate to a person whose question was badly formed, supplied no details - and kinda suggests that I ought to begin my work by doing first 'discovery' and then writing a cookbook. (I have written a couple cookbooks because it was necessary - for a non-tech person to quickly be able to accomplish a specific task.) It's real work, that. I did it for love. I wouldn't do it for money; not ever for whine and cheese.
Are you realizing yet that, it is the form of your requests + the pile of unrelated topics lumped in - which is beginning to grate? And if you interpret these comments too - as "beating on poor Norm again".. well -
I don't think that anyone here doubts that you have a lot of demands on your time. If your family is unable or unwilling to notice that your job depends upon leaving you unmolested for an intense period next .. then I have to plead incompetence at describing for you the necessary clue-by-four.
I wish you success in inventing some restraints for your Young Ghengis Khan, so that you can get on with working. Everyone here would really *like* to see you kewl the new place, see you find a few improvements which *you* can make and maintain - and maybe not dazzle them with alternatives which might be superior in many ways: but which you cannot bring about alone. (I assume from your remarks that - the Co. cannot afford to pay consultancy fees, unless there is an immediate cost savings to be virtually guaranteed). Tough constraints or normal ones?
Luck + some peace and quiet to work in,
Ashton