11 times, so it seems, on her show Tuesday;
http://www.huffingto...rad_n_680680.html
![]() "Chicago to my mind was the only place to be. ... I above all liked the city because it was filled with people all a-bustle, and the clatter of hooves and carriages, and with delivery wagons and drays and peddlers and the boom and clank of freight trains. And when those black clouds came sailing in from the west, pouring thunderstorms upon us so that you couldn't hear the cries or curses of humankind, I liked that best of all. Chicago could stand up to the worst God had to offer. I understood why it was built--a place for trade, of course, with railroads and ships and so on, but mostly to give all of us a magnitude of defiance that is not provided by one house on the plains. And the plains is where those storms come from." -- E.L. Doctorow |
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![]() Are you freaking kidding me? "democratic hags" DO NOT get gobs of face time on Faux Network shows, let alone get to guest host ones like Hannity.
She's a right wingnut tool through and through. "Chicago to my mind was the only place to be. ... I above all liked the city because it was filled with people all a-bustle, and the clatter of hooves and carriages, and with delivery wagons and drays and peddlers and the boom and clank of freight trains. And when those black clouds came sailing in from the west, pouring thunderstorms upon us so that you couldn't hear the cries or curses of humankind, I liked that best of all. Chicago could stand up to the worst God had to offer. I understood why it was built--a place for trade, of course, with railroads and ships and so on, but mostly to give all of us a magnitude of defiance that is not provided by one house on the plains. And the plains is where those storms come from." -- E.L. Doctorow |
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![]() she freakin whines about everything instead of blaming the obvious typical democrat :-)
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![]() Born Laura Catherine Schlessinger HTH. Cheers, Scott. |
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![]() Of course, you missed it, but even if that was true, so what?
All of a sudden your primary sources of bullshit "information" can't be coerced into saying what you want, so instead, you look to a known non-authoritative source that CANNOT be trusted for political issues (by definition, wikipedia can't be used as a sole source of info, especially political), and then whine that if you don't notice a phrase that matches your political leanings, then she must be a democrat. Box, that was just plain stupid. She's an evil hard core right wing bitch. You simply do not read for understanding, you "read" to find stuff you want to see. Go back and reread, and maybe this time think about her before you post. On the other hand, using that logic, I can say you are obviously a democratic whiner. I can't find a wikipedia entry that says otherwise, therefor I must be correct. |
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![]() You actually stated nothing on her politics is in there. As if she is anything else?
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![]() she's a radio announcer. not a politician. Seems alot of folks have confused that distinction.
Sure, understanding today's complex world of the future is a little like having bees live in your head. But...there they are.
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![]() No, she's an evil bitch from way back.
On the other hand, I grant that title to Rush. He found a bandwagon and took off. |
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![]() You actually stated nothing on her politics is in there. As if she is anything else? That reads as if she is nothing but her politics. She's been all about radio and syndication since the 70s. She's Howard Stern with a different shtick. That doesn't preclude you from not liking her politics, advice, et al. I'm not very fond of her either. But then again, I don't like Stearn either. Sure, understanding today's complex world of the future is a little like having bees live in your head. But...there they are.
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[...] I think a lot of sexism works this way, too. Too many people refuse, or don't even try, to put themselves in another person's shoes. They don't consider how they would feel if they, or their daughter, were asked those questions or treated that way. It's a lack of empathy for "the other", but almost always based on culture, race, or gender. I'm not sure what can be done about it, but it continues to be a big problem in too many cases. Cheers, Scott. |
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![]() My GF has a niece she is very close with. The niece married a black guy. Think about it. Inner city white catholic irish philly girl married a a stereotypical black dude who was raised on streets of Camden, and came from Jamaica as a small child. The jamaican connections are still strong. Her father may have spoken to her 3 or 4 times in that last 10 years. Her father not amused.
Her husband is the strongest person I've ever met. Sometimes I feel like Howard Cosell when I see him work, amazed at the strength in his compact body. Yeah, really. Skip? Box? Not weak, but simply not in this guy's class. I've seen him lift and carry a refrigerator (alone) that took 3 people to move. He moved my 400lb 65" projection screen TV down the steps and into a truck. He a had a bit of help, but did the real work. He was really smart. And really nice. They met at college. Neither finished. And then went through hell. He's always thinking of businesses. And the businesses always fail. Most are black centric, ie: a certain type of hat that mostly only black people wear. Before they fail, he tried to get people to invest.Friends, family, etc. I really don't think he's scamming, he's a true believer, and he works HARD. On the other hand, there were an awful lot of "Million Man March" button that never got sold. Multiple large garbage cans full. About 10 years ago he went to U of Penn Wharton business school. Not full degree, but he had a boss that wanted him educated, so that's where they sent him. He did well. He can write a business plan and work out the issues. He can present to a board of directors. You talk to him on the phone, you get a different person than the guy who walks into your office, so he can play the game, and does. He juggles a couple of entrepreneurial jobs (run the parking lot at a restaurant, keep a percentage) or organize a bunch of people selling water on hot days, get the cases of water, travel around town in a van with people and water, etc. He works almost every day in a storefront book store that he rents. His books have a lot of scary anti-black conspiracy stories. He believes a lot of the propaganda in the books he sells. Of course, he's almost smart enough to always phrase his "facts" as questions, so as not to be obviously anti-white. While he does work hard, his wife works harder. They have 5 kids. He's never home, and when he was, he didn't do anything with the kids other than play with them. While he works hard, he pisses through the money, and the rent doesn't get paid. And he blames the wife for stealing his money. You know, to buy pampers and milk and stuff like that. And he doesn't tell her until after they've been locked out, so they lose everything. Again and again. He doesn't like the thought of her going to school. She only needs a couple of classes before becoming as nurse, and dropped out when they got together. If she's educated, she doesn't depend on him, and he can't control her. About 7 years ago he took a steel pipe to the head at a construction site. No payout on any lawsuit, at least not yet. He spent time in the hospital, got out. A different person. No therapy. He lost patience. He lost some short term memory. He got aggressive. He got paranoid. I never knew him before the pipe, I only get occasional hints of how he used to be. He loses things. Goes through a cell phone every couple of weeks. Parks the van where it's not supposed to be, gets towed, and then can't afford to get it back. He's lost multiple vehicles this way. The niece had incredible potential. She has "regal bearing". My step-mother pointed it out when she was about 14. And now she's an almost worst case scenario of a life fucked up. They are split up now, for about a month. He blames it on racism. It's all her family's fault for never accepting him. It's all my GF's fault for not supporting him enough (they lived with her, rent free, for years). Of course, once he hooked up with the niece, most of his family essentially disowned him. Can't get too close to those evil white people. |
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![]() The economics and personal relations weren't a black/white thing in my mom's case with her former 2nd husband. But the story is similar in many respects.
Some people get in bad relationships and can't extricate themselves until it's far too late. :-( Humans generalize - it's how our brains are wired to understand the world. It's a hard thing to combat, but when it gets in the way of seeing individuals as individuals (as opposed to a different race or different gender or different culture) it's a pernicious thing. Especially in a work context. Cheers, Scott. |
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![]() Claims he left it for repair, left it too long.
Claims repair guy (a buddy) left it on the street and it got stolen. Does not want wife to talk to buddy. Possible cause: He sold it without telling her. Possible history: He's done it before. |
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![]() "I'm persecuted because I'm black. I'll put my life savings into Million Man March buttons. Here, won't you buy one?"
No, thanks. "See?! You don't support equality. It's your fault I'm broke!" Works just as easily for southern crackers with swastika tattoos on their necks, complaining that the Jewish bank manager wouldn't hire them as a teller. --
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![]() It started out as an observation about a behavior that many people share. And she frames it correctly.
Its the commentary afterwards (race marriage and the whole President thing) that are her tell. No, I'm not forgiving her. If Imus can lose his spot, she could certainly lose hers. I would have no issue with that. However... I, too, find the double standard on the use of the N word troubling and believe that blacks should not be using it as a "term of endearment" as it were. If its offensive, it is offensive. Period. If its not, and "brothers" can call each other that with impunity..then its not offensive and folks need to get over it. Me personally, I find it offensive. I can't watch Chris Rock, as an example. It bothers me. It bothers me that his use of race gets laughs...as much as it bothers me that Michael Richards thought it would be ok to use the same words to diffuse a heckler. The only difference between the 2 is skin color...and the fact that its treated differently is, to me, racist. Both directions. Sure, understanding today's complex world of the future is a little like having bees live in your head. But...there they are.
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from http://en.wikiquote.org/wiki/Lenny_Bruce When I was a kid growing up in the South, I heard that so much I became desensitized. It just meant somebody was an asshole with a poor vocabulary. |
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![]() but never was very forgiving.
I agree with his sentiment...the taboo around the word is what gives it such power. But as we are getting thinner skinned and not the opposite...safer to just keep those words/thoughts to yourself. Its almost impossible to determine what will, in the end, be deemed offensive by someone else. Sure, understanding today's complex world of the future is a little like having bees live in your head. But...there they are.
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![]() I wasn't either. Still don't much. That's also a big part of my problem with Oxley. He aspires to being a "Good Old Boy". Those shits made my early life hell. I was shot, cut (didn't get the point in, so it wasn't really stabbed), and beaten up by the big brothers (GOB wannabes) of my peers if they didn't win, and a large number of lesser indignities.
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![]() you were picked on by southern grown dullards because you were different. Me I have been picked on by the very best a few of the worst and a boatload of in between to the point a long time ago I stopped giving a flying fuck about what people thought of me and dont backup worth a fuck. Sorry if I pee in yer grits...
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![]() But as we are getting thinner skinned and not the opposite...safer to just keep those words/thoughts to yourself. Its almost impossible to determine what will, in the end, be deemed offensive by someone else. It's not complicated, IMHO. The N word has lots of power, as you both note. It's almost always directed at certain groups of people. When members of that group use the word, they're temporary taking the power to hurt and insult away. When someone who isn't a member of that group uses that word, they're not taking away its power. They're using its power, even if they don't intend to. That's why her use of the word wasn't appropriate; that's why Michael Richard's outburst wasn't appropriate. If Lenny Bruce's routine had stopped with the N word, it would have been inappropriate and not social commentary. It works because he includes many, many groups and says, basically, we're all in the same boat. Similarly, if an older brother calls you a nasty name in jest, that's one thing; if someone on the street uses that same name for you, that's something else. Context matters. [edit:] A couple of TNC columns related to these issues: http://www.theatlant...ing-spades/16920/ http://www.theatlant...for-racists/5989/ Cheers, Scott. |
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![]() ..because it means that someone has to translate thought and intent prior to reacting. It creates a double standard.
Context matters..but it also creates an easy path to misunderstanding. And does the "power" of the word make "cracker" a less offensive or less racist word? It shouldn't. Sure, understanding today's complex world of the future is a little like having bees live in your head. But...there they are.
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![]() "Cracker" or "whitey" or "honkey" do not have anywhere near the power of the N word. Sure, they're insults, but just a little above "buckethead" to my ears (and yes, I did hear those terms as insults growing up part of the time in Georgia).
http://en.wikipedia..../Atlanta_Crackers http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Honkey I'm all for civility, but maintain that it's not complicated to learn what words should be avoided, and reject the "PC/double standard" label for this topic. YMMV. My $0.02. Cheers, Scott. |
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![]() as to >why< you associate more power to the word, when in many instances, its said with the same malice, simply in different directions.
Why is one intent worse than the other? Thats my $0.02, YMMV ;-) Sure, understanding today's complex world of the future is a little like having bees live in your head. But...there they are.
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![]() the argument that racism is less racist depending on who it is.
I get the historical aspects..and the economic aspects...but when it gets to the bare metal, hate is hate. I don't agree with the "power" thing. Thats a different aspect. that doesn't address the base hate. it actually, imo, rationalizes it for some. Sure, understanding today's complex world of the future is a little like having bees live in your head. But...there they are.
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![]() It especially matters if you're the one that doesn't have it.
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![]() It goes against your survival instinct to accept certain things. Giving away power is the ultimate in stupidity. At least from a single organism evolutionary viewpoint.
So you don't. You may or may not get it, and then decide you like it, and any downside to having it isn't so bad. Or you may be dumb (or nice), and act on impulse, and decide because of it you'll give some power away, occasionally. |
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![]() I understand your argument. Being dismissive of my talking point because "I have the power and they don't" is disingenuous.
My point is the core stereotypical assumption that race is a characteristic that denotes a difference and that using that basis to direct general hatred is racist behavior. It has nothing to do with having power and everything to do with individual/group behavior. If a guy in the deep south is working for a black man and calls him the N word, by your definition that is NOT racist. (he doesn't have the power in that relationship). By my definition, it is. Sure, understanding today's complex world of the future is a little like having bees live in your head. But...there they are.
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![]() To me, anyway. And you seem to be changing the topic.
My point is the core stereotypical assumption that race is a characteristic that denotes a difference and that using that basis to direct general hatred is racist behavior. It has nothing to do with having power and everything to do with individual/group behavior. That isn't what I thought you were saying. (Your second paragraph certainly doesn't argue against the point I was trying to make.) I thought you were criticizing some members of some groups being called on using the N word while others weren't. I'll try again to make myself clear before bowing out. As TNC said above, racism is all about power of one group over another. Power that can hold down a minority (as in the antebellum South) or a majority (as in pre-Mandela South Africa). It's not about personal power. A 100 pound 12 year old girl calling a 250 pound black man the N word in Atlanta in 1960 would certainly be engaged in racist behavior even though she would have no physical power over him. Her society certainly had power over him, though, so he would have felt the sting... When derogatory terms from that time, that were used when people were murdered by mobs, are resurrected as an insult, all of that history is dragged up again with that word. It's not about individual power, or lack thereof. There are cases that one could cite about the use of the N word by a white person that is arguably not racist. E.g. the Elvis Costello song "Oliver's Army". One could also look to the past and see the word used in what might be considered a non-racist way - e.g. someone who knows of no other term for a black person. Or, to illustrate a deeper point, as say, Jim in Tom Sawyer. Dr. Laura and Michael Richards weren't cases like those. You seem to argue that one should ignore the history of the word, when that history is the elephant in the room when it's trotted out. Or just say it's too complicated so nobody should use it any more. I maintain it's not complicated - context matters. Another take on this topic is by Randall Kennedy, who wrote a book on it. An interview with him is here - http://www.theatlant...int2002-01-17.htm (scroll down). He's got a complicated view of the word, and arguing for consideration of context, but I'm not sure I agree with him in all aspects... Now maybe I'm misreading you and we're actually in agreement. Wouldn't be the first time; you can have the last word. FWIW. Cheers, Scott. |
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![]() when a liberal democrat comedian loses it and starts screaming nigger nigger nigger, White people get upset, they expect that behavior from southern crackers. An american person with african ancestors isnt upset because he knows those whitebread democratic liberals are as willing as the KKK boys to hold him down. He doesnt expect anything different. When Byrd made a comment about white niggers the black community didnt quibble because they new exactly what he meant, nigger is an attitude not a color.
White liberals get extremely upset because they are all secretly thinking exactly like the white comedian. |
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http://open.salon.co...tsnow_thats_funny "Chicago to my mind was the only place to be. ... I above all liked the city because it was filled with people all a-bustle, and the clatter of hooves and carriages, and with delivery wagons and drays and peddlers and the boom and clank of freight trains. And when those black clouds came sailing in from the west, pouring thunderstorms upon us so that you couldn't hear the cries or curses of humankind, I liked that best of all. Chicago could stand up to the worst God had to offer. I understood why it was built--a place for trade, of course, with railroads and ships and so on, but mostly to give all of us a magnitude of defiance that is not provided by one house on the plains. And the plains is where those storms come from." -- E.L. Doctorow |
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![]() not defending her
Sure, understanding today's complex world of the future is a little like having bees live in your head. But...there they are.
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![]() Just egging on anyone who may think you might.
Hey, give the guy a break. Maybe his blood pressure medicine is expensive. You're costing him money. |
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![]() what the context was. That is all. Already agreed that she was out of line and worthy of the Imus treatment.
Sure, understanding today's complex world of the future is a little like having bees live in your head. But...there they are.
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