wrong, the possibility of having sex is the only reason

Post #271,851 by boxley 11/2/06 7:51:33 AM Reply	wrong, the possibility of having sex is the only reason for me not to kill all of the people that piss me off. its a gift to enjoy, not a toy. Sex has nothing to do with marriage or family. If you tie those together you have people getting married for the wrong reasons, amd the marriages fail. thanx, bill Any opinions expressed by me are mine alone, posted from my home computer, on my own time as a free american and do not reflect the opinions of any person or company that I have had professional relations with in the past 50 years. meep
Post #271,858 by bionerd 11/2/06 9:15:44 AM Reply	Sex has nothing to do with marriage or family? Tell that to all the Catholics out there, who are taught the only reason to have sex is to go forth and multiply and create more little Catholics! If you're Catholic, sex is all about marriage and family. So ya get married to have sex, then the marriage fails and you're stuck because Catholics frown on divorce, too. Man. They got it all figured out. Did anyone think that more single women are choosing to have babies? Ages 19-29. Prime reproductive years. The clock is ticking. Tick tick tick. Where is Mr. Right? I cant find him!! Tick tick tick. Wait!! I dont need Mr. Right! I only need the sperm of a righteous man! More and more women are deciding to have babies on their own, contributing to the "scourge of single women having babies". Biology and the maternal drive trump our perpetual emotional adolescence. Advocating adult abstinence. That's just about the dumbest thing I've ever heard. The feds prefer being fucked up to fucking. WTF are they thinking?
Post #271,873 by bepatient 11/2/06 11:15:51 AM Reply	Of all folks, though you might bring some base drivers Sex is first and foremost the biological act of making babies. Damn right its fun and feels good...nature wired it that way to make sure we did it to give the species the best chance at survival. Of course, this opens up the "can of worms" that this is somehow a "religious right" view..regardless of the simple truth that this is the purpose of the act. (period). What we now see is a push to "it feels good so do it" and we've spent alot of our higher brain function on that aspect. How do I keep doing it WITHOUT the biological outcome. Hey, no problem. BUT, this attitude has created some fundamental issues in society between "factions". Whatever your faction is, denying that makin whoopie has the side effect of makin babies is denying nature. There's also the fact that it also has the side effect of sharing some fairly bad bugs. Reminding folks of these things shouldn't be an issue. And there is, regardless of your religious persuasion, only one way to guarantee none of the bad comes to pass. Thats not to do it at all. The real issue is why we need the government to tell us this. And the sad truth is because we don't have a solid enough family foundation left for most. I agree with you in that there are many woman making the choice to have babies without being married. Sadly, though, they are likely the vast minority...and what we are doing is guaranteeing a continuous source of an underclass by not attacking the problem in some fashion. Current governments way isn't necessarily the best way...but giving everybody a good dose of hormones and saying "have at you" isn't necessarily the best way either. Too much of today's music is fashionable crap dressed as artistry._{Adrian Belew}
Post #271,903 by bionerd 11/2/06 5:24:48 PM Reply	I dont know what base drivers means :-(
Post #271,907 by bepatient 11/2/06 6:21:12 PM Reply	Biology the animal purpose. Base drivers. Too much of today's music is fashionable crap dressed as artistry._{Adrian Belew}
Post #271,918 by bionerd 11/2/06 7:57:48 PM Reply	Ahhh. I thought you were using fancy computer lingo to trip me up. I never know with you guys. ;-)
Post #272,276 by jb4 11/5/06 5:43:50 PM Reply	12" to 15" speakers by Celestron. Put in a folded horn enclosure. Best damn drivers I've evah heard! jb4 "When the final history is written in Iraq, [link\|http://images.ucomics.com/comics/tmate/2006/tmate060926.gif\|it'll look just like a comma.]" — George W. Bush, 24 Sep 06
Post #272,335 by Steve Lowe 11/6/06 12:13:57 AM Reply	You mean Celestion? Celestron make telescopes. -- Steve [link\|http://www.ubuntulinux.org\|Ubuntu]
Post #271,917 by Another Scott 11/2/06 7:57:29 PM Reply	Um, see "bonobo" at Wikipedia... Sex has been about much more than reproduction in human society for a very long time. And it's about more than reproduction in other species as well. [link\|http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bonobo\|Bonobos]. And the way things are going, [link\|http://www.newscientist.com/channel/sex/mg19225741.200-reproduction-revolution-the-conceivable-future.html\|sex will not be about reproduction] (at least in Western societies) too much longer. The simple truth, is nobody will remember us in 100 years. That's true, but it's not the whole story. ;-) Cheers, Scott.
Post #271,923 by a6l6e6x 11/2/06 8:45:14 PM Reply	That's inconceivable! :) Alex When fascism comes to America, it'll be wrapped in a flag and carrying a cross. -- Sinclair Lewis
Post #271,906 by n3jja 11/2/06 6:20:04 PM Reply	I used to be Catholic, but then I grew up.
Post #271,919 by bionerd 11/2/06 7:58:53 PM Reply	Me too.
Post #272,275 by jb4 11/5/06 5:43:02 PM Reply	Oxymoron alert: "Feds thinking" C'mon Bio...you know better than that! jb4 "When the final history is written in Iraq, [link\|http://images.ucomics.com/comics/tmate/2006/tmate060926.gif\|it'll look just like a comma.]" — George W. Bush, 24 Sep 06
Post #271,905 by static 11/2/06 6:16:41 PM Reply	You know what tells me? That tells me that your coping mechanism for life's daily shit is sex. I don't think that's a good thing, Bill. I know it's not your only coping mechanism, as I recall a recent post about things such as your favourite chair. But if your life is setup so that sex is the goal, then you're worshipping it. I agree that sex is a gift that should be treasured. But we're encouraged to treat it like a toy. And that cheapens it and eventually breaks it and we don't usually treasure cheap things. Nor broken things. I also don't think marriage should be the goal of sex, but inept social commentators have been making that mistake for many centuries. Sex is a damn nice reward for an intimate relationship, but not the goal. Wade. "Don't give up!"
Post #271,911 by boxley 11/2/06 7:09:03 PM Reply	worship? Who me? hehehehe Point being is that getting sex should not be a motive for marriage but a nice side effect of a relationship. Yes, if there was not sex I would be in a murderous rage most of the time. Is it a coping thing? Nope otherwise I wouldnt be married I would be catting around. Would you rather watch a ball game drink alchohol with friends watch a movie play music do drugs listen to music go jogging have sex with someone else if you would rather do anything but fuck there is something wrong with you unless you just finished up a good one thanx, bill Any opinions expressed by me are mine alone, posted from my home computer, on my own time as a free american and do not reflect the opinions of any person or company that I have had professional relations with in the past 50 years. meep

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