that's life. My dad was in hock up to his ass when he died. I expected (and got) nothing. What of it? I didn't get his boat, his car, or his house. How am I hurt by the estate tax? None of it was mine, none of it was owned free and clear anyhow, and all of his savings was eaten by long term medical bills.
I don't have any sympathy for your hypotheticals. I'd like to see it ramped way up and used to pay for universal health care equal to what the congressmen get.