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New I'll try hard to remember that, Alex
The real problem see, is I don't KNOW what I said. Once the fight-flight thing hit, I forgot almost everything between the first comment and the fleeing comment I made.

I know I handed him his birthday card, and I said something to the effect of, I tested the PA and we still have no left channel...after that, I can only guess. I remember him saying something about having fixed it, and I remember saying it wasn't fixed now, but then that angry look fixed me, and I guess I thought he figured it was my fault, and well... the rest is a blur until I ran.

Sometimes I really hate having my panic anxiety condition, especially when I can't remember anything said at the onset. (sigh).

Brenda



"I'll rock the darn boat all I want to, and if it's meant to stay afloat, then it will. If not, then we'll just all go down with the bloody ship!"
New As Alex said
you'll need to PRACTICE the non direct methods. If others heard you say "I don't believe you", then you probably said that or words similar.

"I don't believe you" is confrontational.
"I must be doing something wrong, can you show me what to do." says the same thing, "it ain't working", but then you've asked for help. Even when you know you've done everything right.

But it does take practice. And a conscious effort ask in the "non agressive" (mealy mouth) way.

And it does work very effectively.
A good friend will come and bail you out of jail ... but, a true friend will be sitting next to you saying, "Damn...that was fun!"
     If you could spare a positive thought or two... - (Nightowl) - (22)
         You bet. - (Steve Lowe)
         Thinking some now; more on the way later. Hang in there! -NT - (CRConrad)
         Stiff upper lip, and all that. -NT - (pwhysall)
         consider yourself spared :-) -NT - (cforde)
         Not fun. - (imric)
         A positive hoot from me: Hoot! -NT - (Meerkat)
         Hang in there. You'll get through this. Do something fun! -NT - (Another Scott)
         +thought+ +thought+ -NT - (SpiceWare)
         Thoughts send - (jbrabeck) - (10)
             Actually, I know that - (Nightowl) - (9)
                 Choice of words is very important. - (a6l6e6x) - (2)
                     I'll try hard to remember that, Alex - (Nightowl) - (1)
                         As Alex said - (jbrabeck)
                 PA System - (jbrabeck) - (3)
                     Re: PA System - (Nightowl) - (2)
                         Inputs - (jbrabeck) - (1)
                             Thanks, I'll give them the information :) -NT - (Nightowl)
                 Could be a subconscious trigger - (bionerd) - (1)
                     I'm hoping it's situational - (Nightowl)
         Hang in there, Brenda! - (a6l6e6x)
         Thoughts sent -NT - (Silverlock)
         With pleasure.... - (jb4)

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