Maybe the clearest summation I've seen (and I've read a few.. until wearied with the blatherscape that so often surrounds, renders unuseable, much legislation dealing with social-dumbth :(
In a society which virtually-Runs on the daily euphemism (I gotta tinkle) and via its Puritan roots: one utterly FUCKED re anything whatsoever to do with bodily functions -- there shall be no surcease from (kinda like the Windows-OS?) add-on patchwork -- all in well-meaning efforts to somehow address the Situation.
Good Luck to those in the middle of a Situation; may they run into a Laura or Critter & Co. and not some Righteous-based popinjay drunk with too much admin power, first. I do not think that the sort of conversations as occur here, happen very often for and with - the least-ept, who shall continue with: Humiliation first, Blame second.. and assuredly Trauma, too bloody-often also of the blunt- sort.
(Wish I were smart enough to conceive a way-around dogged, traditional farmily-dumbth - as might be effectively applied, in brief-enough time span? But I'm not.)
Ashton