(and I'm using "neaderthal" as a term of endearment)
Let's see, in my situation, he makes the minimum child support payments, never sees the kids, never takes them for visitation, doesnt take them for his scheduled 2 weeks vacation each year, never helps out with child care, school clothes, christmas presents... and so on and so forth. Forever and ever amen.
He lives with his mom. He has no expenses, except booze and tobacco, he's drunk most of the time. Tell me how he's "paying".
And somehow he manages to keep a job while I'm getting my ass kicked out of the best job I ever had. Dont get me started.........