men always pay, one way or another thats how it works

Post #214,730 by boxley 7/14/05 11:20:40 AM Reply	men always pay, one way or another thats how it works as far as cave dragging goes you are gonna tell me that womankind does not MAKE men pay? Let any Divorcee's on this board adress that question. thanx, bill Just call me Mr. Lynch \\ Any opinions expressed by me are mine alone, posted from my home computer, on my own time as a free american and do not reflect the opinions of any person or company that I have had professional relations with in the past 49 years. meep questions, help? [link\|mailto:pappas@catholic.org\|email pappas at catholic.org]
Post #214,739 by ben_tilly 7/14/05 11:38:13 AM Reply	Believe it or not... In most places men come out of divorce far better off than women do. Even in ways that you think women should do well. For instance the vast majority of men who contest custody of kids get it. Most of the time kids go with moms because men don't challenge for custody. But the threat of doing so is a powerful bargaining chip for getting other things, and is commonly used. In The Price of Motherhood there is an interesting court case discussed where an economics professor took an interest and assigned to a class the question of what settlement would leave ex-husband and ex-wife at the same standard of living. Their conclusions were introduced to the court, and affected the settlement. The settlement was challenged by the ex-husband because it was extremely out of line with other settlements in the area - and he was right! Cheers, Ben I have come to believe that idealism without discipline is a quick road to disaster, while discipline without idealism is pointless. -- Aaron Ward (my brother)
Post #214,746 by boxley 7/14/05 11:51:29 AM Reply	there is more in the word "pay" than monetary advantage Just call me Mr. Lynch \\ Any opinions expressed by me are mine alone, posted from my home computer, on my own time as a free american and do not reflect the opinions of any person or company that I have had professional relations with in the past 49 years. meep questions, help? [link\|mailto:pappas@catholic.org\|email pappas at catholic.org]
Post #214,749 by imqwerky 7/14/05 12:04:21 PM Reply	Another county heard from... I just got my Social Security statement from the govmint last month. I lack 20 credits from qualifying for benefits on my own. Really pisses me off considering that I have been raising 3 chillens, stimulating the economy and volunteering for myriad non-profits in the last 20+ years. Of course, Ol' Uncle Sam couldn't care less. No W-2 or 1099, no legitimacy. Now, taking another tack, you wouldn't believe how hard I work to __keep__ our money. I was due an $820 reimbursement from the school district and they kept dragging their feet. Had to stay on top of them to keep the wheels greased or else I would have been last on the list. But, if the shoe were on the other foot and I owed the district money? Hoo boy! I would have had to pay it _yesterday_. And things like that go on all the time with doctor's offices, credit card companies; you get the picture. I work hard to spend our money wisely, make our money work hard for us, and get back any money that is supposed to be returned. I buy groceries, make investments, clothe my family, send my son to college, fill my gas tank and vote. And yet! I Don't Count! I am the Engine running this country and I am not even a statistic for the GDP. Really makes me long for a woman President. Peace, Amy "Life's journey is not to arrive at the grave safely in a well-preserved body, but, rather to skid in sideways totally worn out shouting 'Heilige Sheisse, what a ride!'" .
Post #214,750 by Andrew Grygus 7/14/05 12:15:14 PM Reply	Watch what you wish for . . You'd likely get a Born Again, Right to Life, gay bashing, "women should be at home and completely subservient to their husbands" Red Stater from the GOP who says, "I'm going to change things so women don't have to do what I've had to do to get these things changed". [link\|http://www.aaxnet.com\|AAx]
Post #214,761 by ben_tilly 7/14/05 12:52:37 PM Reply	You mean Condoleeza Rice? There is speculation that she will run in 2008. Many Republicans would love to see her run against Hillary. Random trivia. George Bush has appointed more women to cabinet positions than any other President in history. Cheers, Ben I have come to believe that idealism without discipline is a quick road to disaster, while discipline without idealism is pointless. -- Aaron Ward (my brother)
Post #214,834 by bionerd 7/14/05 5:21:10 PM Reply	That's so he can give the good ole boys something pretty to look at. (with the exclusion of Connie) Random trivia. George Bush has appointed more women to cabinet positions than any other President in history.
Post #214,837 by ben_tilly 7/14/05 5:34:05 PM Reply	I wasn't commenting on why he did so. Just the fact that he has done so. It surprised me when I first heard it. Not what I would have expected. Cheers, Ben I have come to believe that idealism without discipline is a quick road to disaster, while discipline without idealism is pointless. -- Aaron Ward (my brother)
Post #214,858 by imqwerky 7/14/05 7:50:11 PM Reply	Everybody knows... ...that Condoleeza is she-male. :) Remember the Crying Game?! Peace, Amy "Life's journey is not to arrive at the grave safely in a well-preserved body, but, rather to skid in sideways totally worn out shouting 'Heilige Sheisse, what a ride!'" .
Post #215,059 by Ashton 7/15/05 6:27:05 PM Reply	So That's why we've never seen her in a string-bikini. 'Course.. nowadays.... No, we won't go There. Amy.. you be BAAD.
Post #215,076 by imqwerky 7/15/05 7:29:07 PM Reply	I've been corrupted by my Svengali hubby, Thank God! Peace, Amy "Life's journey is not to arrive at the grave safely in a well-preserved body, but, rather to skid in sideways totally worn out shouting 'Heilige Sheisse, what a ride!'" .
Post #214,835 by bionerd 7/14/05 5:30:12 PM Reply	I am a divorced person, you big neaderthal! (and I'm using "neaderthal" as a term of endearment) Let's see, in my situation, he makes the minimum child support payments, never sees the kids, never takes them for visitation, doesnt take them for his scheduled 2 weeks vacation each year, never helps out with child care, school clothes, christmas presents... and so on and so forth. Forever and ever amen. He lives with his mom. He has no expenses, except booze and tobacco, he's drunk most of the time. Tell me how he's "paying". And somehow he manages to keep a job while I'm getting my ass kicked out of the best job I ever had. Dont get me started.........
Post #214,859 by boxley 7/14/05 7:56:19 PM Reply	does he cringe everytime your name is mentioned? like I said, payment isnt always money related thanx, bill Just call me Mr. Lynch \\ Any opinions expressed by me are mine alone, posted from my home computer, on my own time as a free american and do not reflect the opinions of any person or company that I have had professional relations with in the past 49 years. meep questions, help? [link\|mailto:pappas@catholic.org\|email pappas at catholic.org]
Post #214,971 by bionerd 7/15/05 10:50:40 AM Reply	I certainly hope so.

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